The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

Author: Robyn Gobbel Language: English Episodes: 100
Robyn Gobbel, an internationally recognized expert in children's mental health, hosts The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}. This podcast serves as a compassionate guide for parents raising children whose nervous systems are vulnerable due to past trauma, toxic stress, neuroimmune disorders, or sensory processing differences. Each episode is dedicated to decoding the confusing and often overwhelming behaviors that can leave caregivers feeling isolated and unsure. Robyn translates complex neuroscience and attachment theory into practical, relatable insights, moving beyond simple behavioral tips to address the root causes of family stress. You'll find a sense of community and understanding here, a place where the struggle is acknowledged without judgment. The conversations in this podcast offer more than strategies; they provide a framework for building safety and connection, helping to shift your perspective from "what's wrong with my child" to "what happened to my child." It’s a resource for anyone exhausted by conventional advice that hasn't worked, emphasizing that you are not alone on this journey. Through stories, expert interviews, and Robyn's own grounded wisdom, the podcast fosters resilience and hope, empowering you to create a family life grounded in co-regulation and mutual understanding.
Episodes
Ep. 211: Hard? Too Hard? For PARENTS!!! [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:09
We talk a lot about hard very too hard for your kids (thanks Amanda Diekman for that hard vs. too hard language!). But have you considered applying that concept to yourself? This is intensive parenting! Far beyond when p…
{BONUS} Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior- webinar replay [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 55:47
This BONUS episode is the audio from my FREE webinar, Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior. This webinar aired lived on 02/04/2025. You can watch the video webinar for free over at https://RobynGobbel.com/webin…
Ep 210: Sabotage and Being Set Up [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 36:59
It’s very common to feel like our kids are either intentionally sabotaging good things or that they are purposefully setting us up to be mad or disappointed or to have to say no. You aren’t imagining this phenomenon! All…
Ep. 209: No One is Coming to Save Us [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 44:49
It took me a looooooong time to really truly believe and understand that- no one is coming to save me. I had to do the hard work to take responsibility for my own triggers, my own nervous system, my own change. This only…
Ep. 208: Bravely Being With Grief with Rose LaPiere [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 51:13
Rose LaPiere LPC, RPT-S, and ACS invites into a space of safety and connection so we can make room for grief. Rose brings her own experiences of grief to her work as a play therapist (and co-leader in Robyn’s immersive t…
Ep. 207: Is It Time to Raise the Bar? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 40:40
You’ve lowered stress and demands. You’ve reframed your child’s behavior as a response from their autonomic nervous system. You’ve worked hard to help your child’s stress response system rest and begin to heal Now what?…
Ep. 206: Punishment Free Parenting with Jon Fogel [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:08:42
Jon Fogel is a dad who combined his passion for parenting, neuroscience, and impacting the world to create a viral social media account (@wholeparent) and then to publish his book, Punishment-Free Parenting. Jon and I ge…
Ep. 205: Scaffolding Felt Safety [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 58:29
How do we help kids feel safe when they are safe? How do we help them take in the safety that exists in their life when their life experiences seem to have convinced them that nothing is safe. Scaffolding. Yes, we can sc…
Ep. 204: The Way of Play with Dr. Tina Payne Bryson [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 56:51
Play makes kids stronger. It’s necessary for their physical and emotional development, and even their academic development. Play helps kids work through and make sense of hard things. A few months ago I went searching fo…
REPLAY: Living with Someone Chronically Dysregulated [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 29:53
Do you live with someone or love someone who is chronically dysregulated? This episode isn’t an episode that is going to tell you what to do. This is an episode of commiseration. Of “I see you.” It is exhausting to live…