Welcome to The Bridge Between Us Podcast, where we navigate the challenges and opportunities of walking alongside LGBTQ-identified loved ones from a Biblical perspective. Hosted by Melinda Patrick, today's solo episode is all about being your own advocate as you build a support team for your personal journey.
In Today's Episode, You'll Hear About:
- The importance of a support system and how Jesus' story of raising Lazarus teaches us that no one walks the journey alone.
- The need for Godly counsel and guidance in your healing process.
- Signs to look for that indicate you might need professional help, including counselors or therapists, to aid you through grief or trauma.
- How to interview a counselor to ensure they align with your Biblical convictions and are a good fit for your needs.
- Practical questions you should ask potential counselors to be your own advocate.
- The role of trusting in God's process and finding freedom not just for your loved one, but for yourself too.
Key Scriptures Discussed:
- John 11:44 – The story of Lazarus: Jesus doesn't expect us to walk alone.
- Galatians 6:2 – Carry one another's burdens and fulfill the law of Christ.
- Romans 8:28-29 – God works all things for our good and transforms us into the image of His Son.
- Proverbs 11:14, 20:5, 24:6 – The wisdom and safety found in seeking godly counsel.
Key Takeaways:
- Building a support team of friends, prayer warriors, counselors, and more is essential to emotional and spiritual healing.
- A biblical counselor can provide guidance and a fresh perspective when you're stuck in grief or difficult circumstances.
- As a self-advocate, you have the right to interview and find the right counselor who aligns with your values.
- Healing and freedom aren't just for your loved one—they're for YOU too. Your journey is just as much about your own transformation.
Red Flags: Signs You May Need Help
Melinda shares some red flags to watch for to determine if you might be struggling with grief or trauma:
- Difficulty remembering the last time you laughed or enjoyed time with loved ones.
- Struggling to engage in activities you once loved.
- Feeling emotionally drained by everyday tasks.
- Avoiding people or conversations.
- Trouble celebrating others' successes.
- Feeling overwhelmed by bitterness, guilt, or sadness.
Questions to Ask Your Counselor:
- How does your Christian faith influence your approach to therapy?
- What's your view on marriage and gender?
- What do you believe about homosexuality, and how does that affect your counseling approach?
- Do you see the Bible as the final authority in your practice?
These questions will help you determine if a counselor aligns with your faith and values before diving deeper into the therapeutic process.
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Want to Connect?
Melinda loves to hear from listeners! If you're navigating your own journey, need encouragement, or want to share your story, feel free to email Melinda at melinda@melindapatrick.org.
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Until next time, remember:
God has entrusted this journey to you. As you engage with Him, He will equip you for each next step.
*Disclaimer:
The opinions and advice shared on this podcast are intended for informational purposes and are not a substitute for professional counseling. Always seek appropriate guidance and support for your personal needs.
