Back to School: Managing Humans with Chris Mukibi Ep 90

Back to School: Managing Humans with Chris Mukibi Ep 90

Author: Sarah Kesty, Brain Tools School August 18, 2026 Duration: 39:52

Hey team!

Meet my friend Chris Mukibi, a Southern California high school chemistry and AVID teacher, and generally awesome human. We dive into the neuroscience of classroom behavior and the art that is managing humans. We discuss regulation and dysregulation, why shared language helps prevent behavior issues, and how reframing behavior as a message is more useful than labeling kids as “jerks” (or worse).

Chris helps us understand the link between increased anxiety and dysregulation and the broader societal stressors like internet-driven information overload, rapid technological change, and unpredictability. You'll learn practical executive-function supports—predictable routines, visuals, calendars, sticky notes, and checklists—to externalize working memory and reduce cognitive load at school and at home. You'll love his approachable wisdom and humor!


All my love,

Sarah

About Chris: Chris Mukiibi is a high school chemistry and AVID teacher in Southern California and the founder of BrightStar Education. He's the author of The Learning Compass and the creator of Behavior By Design, a coaching framework that has trained hundreds of educators to manage classroom behavior through the nervous system rather than through control. His core idea is simple: behavior is downstream, emotional state is upstream, and a student stuck in stress or survival can't access focus, planning, or self-regulation, no matter how good the strategy is. He still teaches every day, which means everything he shares was tested in a real classroom that week.

⁠Instagram⁠ instagram.com/mrmukiibi 

Email: chris@chrismukiibi.com


The show:

01:59 Sleep and Self Regulation

02:49 Language Behind Behavior

04:12 Kids These Days Debate

05:51 Internet and Rapid Change

07:40 Uncertainty and Stress State

10:35 Tame Jungle vs Prepare Kids

13:32 Zone of Proximal Growth

15:11 Carlos and Real Wins

18:09 Growth Mindset and EF Tools

19:12 Working Memory Nerd Out

20:36 Offload Your Memory

21:58 Sticky Notes and Lists

23:15 To Do Lists for Anxiety

24:28 Predictability for Presence

25:24 Classroom Routines Framework

27:28 Expectations Reduce Anxiety

29:43 Visual Scaffolds for Change

33:06 Capacity Over Knowing Better

34:35 Regulate First Then Teach

36:11 Calming Cues for Adults

38:00 Where to Find Chris

38:51 Wrap Up and Thanks 


Connect with Sarah!

My book is out in the wild, and it's changing lives! Order Growing Executive Function at ⁠Solution Tree ⁠or on ⁠Amazon⁠.

I'm also training educators and organizations across this beautiful globe, and we're finding improving executive function is game-changing! If that sounds like what your school or organization needs, ⁠reach out⁠! Sarah at sarahkesty.com.



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