37 - Eileen Joy talks about comparisonitis and telling off the Joneses

37 - Eileen Joy talks about comparisonitis and telling off the Joneses

Author: Vegan Lifestyle Coach: Jenny Cheifetz August 28, 2024 Duration: 52:25

Eileen Joy is the Money Coach for Moms, a Certified Financial Educator, the host of the Moms who Money podcast, and founder of Money School for Moms™. She helps moms stop stressing about money so they can stop living paycheck to paycheck and confidently invest and set themselves and their kids up to be millionaires! Her 12-year-old son knows more about money than most adults and is on track to be a multi-millionaire. Eileen created an easy system that any busy mom can follow and specializes in working with high achieving, professional moms who are committed to investing in themselves and their children and know that money is their next step. Eileen provides a safe and comfortable environment to learn about one of the most avoided and taboo subjects, money. No more Shame, Guilt, or embarrassment.

Eileen's Notes from the Sideline's:

  1. Money is a taboo topic, like sex, politics, and religion that brings hatred or chaos in the world.
  2. Humans either run toward pleasure or away from pain.
  3. Since it's implied by society that men take care of money, that idea is living in the subconscious, so we spend without thinking then there's more month left at the end of the money resulting in scarcity and the feeling of "I can't" and "I should."
  4. Our money story, like all human conditioning, starts between birth and age seven, from parents and society. And we can rewrite our money story.
  5. They say the #1 cause of divorce is money, but it's actually communication about money, because we are afraid to talk about money and it's uncomfortable.
  6. In America, we're raised with the American Dream. We're trained to think we need all things and that we need them by "milestones," made up dates, which breed the disease of comparisonitis caused by the Joneses, a comic strip from 1913.
  7. Fun fact, 78% of Americans are living paycheck to paycheck. The system is broken and set up to make you fail, so it's not your fault.
  8. Let's change the framework to tune out the external noise and internalize the thinking to, "What do I want? What's important to me?"
  9. You are your own best investment.

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