The Hardcore Therapist 97.5- The 80/20 Trap being with an Emotionally Unavailable

The Hardcore Therapist 97.5- The 80/20 Trap being with an Emotionally Unavailable

Author: Sarah August 13, 2025 Duration: 15:34
Send us Fan Mail Today, we’re diving into a relationship pattern that so many of my clients — and honestly, me in my past life too — have found themselves stuck in. It’s being with someone who is emotionally unavailable… and somehow finding yourself doing 80% of the work to hold things together while they coast at 20%. Now, if you’ve ever been the one chasing texts, planning dates, initiating deep talks, and being the emotional glue… only to realize they’re just kind of along for the ride… th...

Ever wondered what happens when a therapist trades the quiet office for the messy, complicated reality of everyday life? That's the space The Hardcore Therapist occupies. Hosted by Sarah, this podcast digs into the raw material of human experience-the relationships that shape us, the cultural forces that pressure us, and the personal battles we fight in silence. You won't find textbook theories delivered from an ivory tower here. Instead, Sarah applies a grounded, practical lens to the struggles we all recognize, from navigating family dynamics and personal growth to understanding our place in a shifting society. Each conversation feels like a candid talk with someone who gets it, blending professional insight with straight-talking honesty. The goal isn't just to educate but to connect, offering tangible perspectives for self-improvement that resonate long after the episode ends. By focusing on real-world application over abstract concepts, this podcast builds a bridge between therapeutic wisdom and the hardcore business of actually living. It’s for anyone ready to look at their life with clarity and courage, seeking tools that work outside the therapist's door. Tune in for a unique blend of compassion and grit, where improving your mental and emotional world feels not only possible but deeply human.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 100

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The Hardcore Therapist 129- Sean Kinnerly (Samian) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 55:16
Send us Fan Mail Today’s guest is Sean Kennerly, guitarist, songwriter, and a foundational voice in Samiam, a band that helped shape emotionally honest punk at a time when vulnerability wasn’t exactly encouraged. For dec…
The Hardcore Therapist 128- Kurtis Powers (Time Flies) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:22:30
Send us Fan Mail Kurtis Powers is a creative, curator, founder, and strategist working at the intersection of media, culture, and conversation. As the force behind a radio station and a weekly talk radio show, Kurtis cre…
The Hardcore Therapist 127- Civ (Gorilla Biscuits and CIV) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:03:19
Send us Fan Mail Today’s guest is Anthony Civeralli most people know him as Civ; frontman of Gorilla Biscuits and CIV. Gorilla Biscuits have witnessed nearly four decades of global scenes, audiences, and stages and someh…
The Hardcore Therapist 126- Melinda Beck [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 57:26
Send us Fan Mail Today’s guest is an artist whose work quietly shaped an entire era of alternative and hardcore culture whether people realized it or not. Melinda Beck is an award-winning illustrator, animator, and desig…