The Hardcore Therapist 97.5- The 80/20 Trap being with an Emotionally Unavailable

The Hardcore Therapist 97.5- The 80/20 Trap being with an Emotionally Unavailable

Author: Sarah August 13, 2025 Duration: 15:34
Send us Fan Mail Today, we’re diving into a relationship pattern that so many of my clients — and honestly, me in my past life too — have found themselves stuck in. It’s being with someone who is emotionally unavailable… and somehow finding yourself doing 80% of the work to hold things together while they coast at 20%. Now, if you’ve ever been the one chasing texts, planning dates, initiating deep talks, and being the emotional glue… only to realize they’re just kind of along for the ride… th...

Ever wondered what happens when a therapist trades the quiet office for the messy, complicated reality of everyday life? That's the space The Hardcore Therapist occupies. Hosted by Sarah, this podcast digs into the raw material of human experience-the relationships that shape us, the cultural forces that pressure us, and the personal battles we fight in silence. You won't find textbook theories delivered from an ivory tower here. Instead, Sarah applies a grounded, practical lens to the struggles we all recognize, from navigating family dynamics and personal growth to understanding our place in a shifting society. Each conversation feels like a candid talk with someone who gets it, blending professional insight with straight-talking honesty. The goal isn't just to educate but to connect, offering tangible perspectives for self-improvement that resonate long after the episode ends. By focusing on real-world application over abstract concepts, this podcast builds a bridge between therapeutic wisdom and the hardcore business of actually living. It’s for anyone ready to look at their life with clarity and courage, seeking tools that work outside the therapist's door. Tune in for a unique blend of compassion and grit, where improving your mental and emotional world feels not only possible but deeply human.
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The Hardcore Therapist 108- Akincana Krishna Das (Glassjaw) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 54:09
Send us Fan Mail Today on The Hardcore Therapist Podcast, we’re joined by a truly unique guest whose roots run deep in both hardcore and sacred sound. Akincana Krishna grew up in New York immersed in music, first as a mu…
The Hardcore Therapist 107.5- Why Can't I Focus? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 19:28
Send us Fan Mail Feeling scatterbrained, overwhelmed, or unable to concentrate? You’re not alone. In this episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I dive into why focus is so difficult for adults today—especially those with AD…
The Hardcore Therapist 107- Steven Walker (Steven in Stereo YouTube) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:26:23
Send us Fan Mail Today on the Hardcore Therapist, we’re honored to welcome Steven ‘Steven In Stereo’ Walker, also known as PositiveSteven , a voice in the YouTube music commentary landscape. Steven has built a platform w…
The Hardcore Therapist 106- Vic DiCara (Inside Out, Shelter, 108) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 56:32
Send us Fan Mail On this episode of The Hardcore Therapist, I was honored to welcome a very special guest—someone whose journey through music, philosophy, and spiritual practice has inspired generations. Vic DiCara is be…
The Hardcore Therapist 104- Christoph Jesus (Crazy and The Brains) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:07:37
Send us Fan Mail Today on The Hardcore Therapist, I spoke to the artist Christoph Jesus. Christoph Jesus is the electrifying frontman of Crazy & the Brains, the New Jersey-born band known for blending streetwise lyrics,…