62. Why Perfectionism Will KILL Your Fluency

62. Why Perfectionism Will KILL Your Fluency

Author: Hadar Shemesh September 15, 2020 Duration: 28:01

Having PERFECT English may sound like a dream come true, but what does it really mean to have perfect English? Is it even a THING? Is there such a thing as perfect English?

And even if there was (and there isn't) – do you think it serves you to strive for perfection, or does it get in your way?

In this episode I'll discuss why striving for perfection when communicating in English (which means working relentlessly on your pronunciation and never feeling satisfied, beating yourself up on small and big mistakes, not speaking when you're not sure what words to use) is a potential death threat to your fluency.

You don't believe me?
Listen to the episode and come on over to Instagram @hadar.accentsway and let me know what you think.

Download for free 30 Most Powerful English Speaking Affirmations – https://bit.ly/32tNekW

More episodes on the topic:

The Compound Effect – https://hadarshemesh.com/podcast/15/
The Imposter Syndrome – https://hadarshemesh.com/podcast/11/

Join our Facebook community to connect with non-native English learners from all over the world: https://theaccentsway.com/influency-community/


Hadar Shemesh hosts The InFluency Podcast, drawing from her own journey from an intermediate English speaker to a recognized pronunciation expert and fluency coach. This isn't about abstract theory; it's a practical, empathetic guide for anyone who feels stuck in their language learning. Hadar's conversations and solo episodes delve into the tangible strategies that actually work for acquiring an American accent, building unshakeable confidence, and moving beyond textbook English to authentic, fluid speech. You'll hear a blend of mindset shifts, technical pronunciation breakdowns, and stories from a global community of learners. The focus is always on the human side of fluency-how it connects to identity, courage, and communication. Each episode of this podcast feels like a direct coaching session, offering actionable steps that address the real frustrations and aspirations of students and teachers alike. Hadar's approach demystifies the process, making the path to speaking English with assurance feel not only possible but deeply personal. Tune in for a resource that understands the journey because the host has lived it, creating a space where progress is celebrated over perfection.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 508

The InFluency Podcast
Podcast Episodes
107. How to pronounce woman/women [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 3:05
English words can be really confusing sometimes. In these how-to-pronounce episodes published on Fridays, I'll help you with the pronunciation of confusing words. Next week we're going to celebrate Women's Day. The day w…
106. How to pronounce Costume, Custom, and Customs [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 6:51
English words can be really confusing sometimes. In these how-to-pronounce episodes published on Fridays, I'll help you with the pronunciation of confusing words. This week we're going to talk about how to pronounce the…
105. 50 Powerful Fluency Tips (in under 5 minutes) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 9:41
Ever felt stuck, not knowing what to do next to improve your fluency in English? NOT ANYMORE In this episode I'm gonna share with you 50 of my best English fluency tips so that you can become fluent in English, or any ot…
104. How to pronounce the L [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:17
English sounds can be really confusing sometimes. In these how-to-pronounce episodes published on Fridays, I'll help you with the pronunciation of confusing words or sounds. This week we're going to talk about the L soun…
103. Why your Voice Matters [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 14:51
The fear of speaking in a second language or in public can be crippling. That knot that pushes your words further down into your chest. Do you know it? We often think about these things as if they are OUR OWN issues. OUR…
102. How to say 'Happy Valentine's Day' [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 6:07
English words can be really confusing sometimes. In these how-to-pronounce episodes published on Fridays, I'll help you with the pronunciation of confusing words. This week we're going to talk about how to say 'Happy Val…
101. How to pronounce: Flap T and D [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 8:55
English sounds can be really confusing sometimes. In these how-to-pronounce episodes published on Fridays, I'll help you with the pronunciation of confusing words or sounds. This week we're going to talk about the flap T…
99. How to pronounce OW as in GO [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 5:22
English words can be really confusing sometimes. In these how-to-pronounce episodes published on Fridays, I'll help you with the pronunciation of confusing words. This week we're going to talk about the OW diphthong, as…