Annoying Assumptions About Asexuality and Aromanticism - Sand in My Clam Series

Annoying Assumptions About Asexuality and Aromanticism - Sand in My Clam Series

Author: freyagraf May 8, 2023 Duration: 54:20

This week in The Lounge I get a couple of cool cats on to chat about asexuality and aromanticism and the annoying and incorrect assumptions that are commonly made by those of us who don't understand this topic.


I chat with Niamh (who's asexual and aromantic) and mainstay guest and supporter of the poddy, Hannah, about this complex and oft-misunderstood orientation.

We cover some common misconceptions and assumptions people make that get sand in Niamh's clam. For example the ol' "Oh you're asexual? What a waste...what a pity", and "oh you're asexual? It's a phase, you'll change your mind about me"... Or "you just haven't met the right person". We chat about how people commonly feel sorry for people who are asexual as though they're missing out on some essential and incomparable part of the human experience. And we cover the reactions people have if someone who claims to be asexual puts effort into their appearance, dresses up in an 'attractive' way or engages in their sensual expression.

We talk about intimacy, baths with friends, platonic connection and people feeling entitled to our bodies.


This is an important conversation and will help deepen your understanding of this stuff hugely so I really recommend giving it a listen!


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Hosted by holistic sex coach and Yoni Mapping Therapist Freya Graf, The Labia Lounge is a candid and often hilarious space for conversations that mainstream culture often tiptoes around. This podcast delves into the interconnected realms of sexuality, womanhood, and holistic health with a refreshing lack of filter. Freya approaches intimate topics with the warmth and directness of a trusted friend, aiming to provide the kind of practical, compassionate education many never received. Each episode feels like a real chat among real people, blending personal stories, professional insight, and plenty of laughter. The discussions naturally explore how physical, emotional, and cultural dimensions of our lives intersect, all delivered with a down-to-earth Aussie sensibility. Listening to this podcast feels like pulling up a chair for an honest, empowering, and surprisingly funny yarn about the things that matter most in our personal journeys. It’s for anyone curious about deepening their understanding of themselves and their relationships, seeking a blend of grounded advice and genuine connection. Expect to feel both informed and entertained as Freya and her guests navigate the full spectrum of human experience with wit and wisdom.
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