Toey Hires a Sex Worker For The First Time - 'Tub Talks' Real Chats From The Bath!

Toey Hires a Sex Worker For The First Time - 'Tub Talks' Real Chats From The Bath!

Author: freyagraf October 7, 2024 Duration: 1:37:08

In this episode of The Labia Lounge I'm introducing a new format as a special treat - Welcome to the first ever installment of TUB TALKS!

Enjoy a very raw and entertaining chat from the bath between myself and a close friend - who will remain anonymous since this one's particularly explicit and personal (absolutely NSFW)!



We discuss my dear pal's first ever experience hiring a professional SW and touch upon topics of race, power dynamics, SW as real work, cannabis use, objectification, breakups and aaaaaall sorts in this one!


It's probably the most edgy episode I've put out over the last 3 years of having this podcast, and if you stick around until the end you'll be rewarded with the most vulnerable share I've ever disclosed on the poddy as well.



For a number of different reasons this episode feels really scary and exposing for me to release but I'm riding out the discomfort and vulnerability hangover and trusting that my darling listeners and loyal innermost community have got my back and can hold space for it all with love.

I do encourage you to reach out once you listen to this one, as I value your feedback on the edgy stuff and will also really appreciate any reassurance or support sent my way after this if you're picking up what I'm putting down!


As a follow on from this episode I'm also releasing a part 2 that entails a whole bunch of unpacking that occurred after the initial Tub Talk recording session. It's between Toey and I, and a friend who I sought some feedback from about the stuff that felt a bit edgy or uncomfortable, and involves a whole bunch of cut together voice memos going back and forth and chewing over the chunky stuff. This follow up dives deeper into some of the topics that cropped up in this episode and is a valuable example of how communication can work when all parties are trying to understand one another's points of view from a healthy place of compassion and curiosity. It's pretty cool, if you ask me! So make sure you check that one out after this too.


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Hosted by holistic sex coach and Yoni Mapping Therapist Freya Graf, The Labia Lounge is a candid and often hilarious space for conversations that mainstream culture often tiptoes around. This podcast delves into the interconnected realms of sexuality, womanhood, and holistic health with a refreshing lack of filter. Freya approaches intimate topics with the warmth and directness of a trusted friend, aiming to provide the kind of practical, compassionate education many never received. Each episode feels like a real chat among real people, blending personal stories, professional insight, and plenty of laughter. The discussions naturally explore how physical, emotional, and cultural dimensions of our lives intersect, all delivered with a down-to-earth Aussie sensibility. Listening to this podcast feels like pulling up a chair for an honest, empowering, and surprisingly funny yarn about the things that matter most in our personal journeys. It’s for anyone curious about deepening their understanding of themselves and their relationships, seeking a blend of grounded advice and genuine connection. Expect to feel both informed and entertained as Freya and her guests navigate the full spectrum of human experience with wit and wisdom.
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