Is It the Apps or Us? Muslim Marriage Struggles Explained

Are you a millennial or Gen Z Muslim struggling to navigate the modern marriage scene while building a successful career? In this episode of the Oasis, we sit down with Basama Beyah, to discuss everything from modest fashion to finding your soulmate in the digital age. We dive deep into the challenges of the current marriage market and why so many young Muslims are finding it difficult to connect. Basama provides an inside look at her role as the senior global marketing manager at Salams, the worlds leading Muslim marriage app, and offers practical advice on how to approach the search for a spouse with the right mindset. We also explore her success as a fashion designer with her brand BaZma Beyond and how she managed to purchase her first home as an investment at just twenty-five years old. Later in the episode, we are joined by Basama's mother, Aziza, who shares her perspective on raising successful children, the art of homeschooling, and the importance of returning to the Quran and Sunnah when building a family. This conversation is packed with inspiration for anyone looking to balance professional ambition with spiritual growth and community building. Chapters 0:00 Introduction to the Oasis 2:15 Growing up as a fourth generation Muslim 5:45 The reality of homeschooling and family protection 9:30 Balancing Quranic studies with university life 1 4:00 Why Basama pursued an MBA at twenty  18:15 Family history and reverting to Islam 23:30 Launching BaZma Beyond fashion line 27:45 Entrepreneurship and the power of family support 32:15 Marketing strategies and the shift to social media 37:00 Buying an investment home at twenty-five 41:30 Developing a positive and confident mindset 45:00 Behind the scenes at the Salams marriage app 49:15 Global marketing and the startup experience 53:45 Why millennials are having a hard time getting married 58:30 Navigating cultural expectations and financial barriers 1:02:15 Closing the gap between men and women in marriage 1:06:00 A conversation with Basama's mother Aziza 1:10:00 The future of modest fashion and final advice 1:12:55 Conclusion If you found this episode helpful, please RATE & REVIEW  subscribe to our channel for more deep dives into the Muslim experience. Don't forget to share your thoughts on the modern marriage scene in the comments below! #muslimmarriage #modestfashion #entrepreneurship #homeschooling #islamiclifestyle