30 - Learning to Trust Yourself - Self-trust evading you these days due to people pleasing, parentification, or narcissistic abuse? It's time to heal, hunny.

30 - Learning to Trust Yourself - Self-trust evading you these days due to people pleasing, parentification, or narcissistic abuse? It's time to heal, hunny.

Author: Remy Ramirez - Your Trauma Bestie™️ December 4, 2022 Duration: 1:34:36
It should be easy, right? We just ask ourselves what we want or what we feel, and voila! But for a lot of us, that gauge got effed up somewhere along the way. So, after we've made a decision we regret, after we've become knee-jerk people pleasers, after we were gaslit for years and came to doubt our instincts, after parentification, narcissistic abuse, or other CPTSD-inducing forms of abuse—how do we start to trust ourselves again? How do we make decisions in our own best interest? This week, registered psychotherapist, and founder and clinical director of New Moon Psychotherapy, Emilia Pacholec, joins me to talk about our journey to trusting ourselves again. If you'd like a one-on-one coaching session with Remy, go https://calendly.com/workwithremy/55-minutes (⁠here⁠). If you'd like a birth chart reading with Remy, go https://calendly.com/workwithremy/birth-chart-reading (⁠here⁠). Want to connect? Find me here: https://www.instagram.com/thepatraumaparty/?hl=en (⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠)https://www.tiktok.com/@thepatraumaparty?_t=ZP-8w1s4E2IqIY&_r=1⁠ (⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠) https://www.tiktok.com/@thepatraumaparty?_t=ZP-8w1s4E2IqIY&_r=1⁠ (⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠) Email: patraumaparty@gmail.com The information provided on this podcast is for informational purposes only. None of the material presented is intended to be a substitute for psychotherapy, counseling, professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. If you need to speak with a professional, you can find one local to you and reach out directly, or you can call 988 to connect with the national Suicide and Crisis Hotline.

Ever find yourself laughing through the pain because, honestly, what else is there to do? That's the space where The Patrauma Party-Heal from trauma, improve self worth, and learn to love yourself, dammit lives. Hosted by Remy Ramirez, who you'll quickly come to know as Your Trauma Bestie, this isn't your typical solemn dive into psychology. It's a real, often surprisingly funny, and always compassionate conversation about why healing from past wounds feels so frustratingly difficult. Each episode alternates between insightful talks with mental health professionals and raw, practical coaching sessions where Remy guides real listeners through their immediate struggles. You'll hear people unpack why they're drawn to unavailable partners, how to quiet that voice doubting their worth, and what it truly takes to break free from cycles that talk of "just moving on" never seems to fix. The core question driving every discussion is a practical one: how do we actually change? If you're tired of theoretical advice and crave relatable stories and actionable steps, this podcast offers a sense of community and a much-needed dose of humor on the path toward understanding yourself better.
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