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Parenting Ourselves While Raising Our Kids

Parenting Ourselves While Raising Our Kids

Author: Jaimie Kelton – Queer Parenting & LGBTQ Families'. August 10, 2026 Duration: 48:19
The Queer Family Podcast – LGBTQ Families & Queer Parenting Stories
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Not every episode about queer families is about making a family.

Sometimes it's about healing the person who became one.

This week, Jaimie sits down with Bronwin Parks and Elinor Svoboda, hosts of the Late in 88 podcast, to explore the "baby gay" still living inside all of us. Together they unpack growing up queer in the 80s and 90s, the importance of queer history, how today's political attacks echo the past, and why doing our own healing helps us raise more confident, resilient kids.

Whether you're a parent or simply someone still unlearning shame, this conversation is a reminder that our stories—and our history—matter.

🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways

  • Healing ourselves is part of raising healthy kids.
  • Queer history helps us understand ourselves—and how far we've come.
  • We all have an inner "baby gay" who deserves compassion.
  • Simply living authentically can change hearts and minds.
  • Community and representation matter for every generation.
  • The world we're creating for our kids starts with how we show up today.


🏳️‍🌈 About the guest(s)

Bronwin Parks and Elinor Svoboda are lifelong friends and the hosts of Late in 88, a podcast that explores queer history through the lens of their own childhoods growing up in conservative Alberta during the late 1980s and 1990s. Blending personal storytelling with queer history, child psychology, and cultural context, they invite listeners to reconnect with—and heal—their own "baby gay."

🏳️‍🌈 Resources Mentioned

Website: https://latein88.com/

Late in 88 Social Media

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/late.in.88/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@late.in.88

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Late.in.88

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Hosted by queer mom Jaimie Kelton, The Queer Family Podcast-LGBTQ Families & Queer Parenting Stories offers a weekly space that is both uproariously funny and deeply genuine. Each episode features conversations with LGBTQIA+ parents, hopeful parents, and their allies, delving into the specific joys and hurdles of building a family outside of traditional frameworks. You’ll hear firsthand accounts of the paths to parenthood-from adoption and fostering to IVF and surrogacy-and the everyday realities of raising kids in a world that can still feel unfamiliar. This podcast moves beyond theory, focusing on lived experiences that cover everything from health and fitness routines that work for queer families to navigating complex conversations about sexuality and society with children. The goal is straightforward: to share stories that normalize these experiences, elevate diverse voices, and celebrate the full spectrum of queer family life. Tuning in means connecting with a community, finding resonance in shared challenges, and gathering a lot of practical wisdom-and laughter-along the way. It’s a resource and a companion for anyone curious about or living within the beautifully expansive definition of a modern family.
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