Redefining Parenthood: A Queer Guide to Modern Parenting

Redefining Parenthood: A Queer Guide to Modern Parenting

Author: Jaimie Kelton – Queer Parenting & LGBTQ Families'. November 4, 2024 Duration: 1:06:35

Jaimie and guest S. Bear Bergman delve into love, family, and LGBTQIA identity against the backdrop of the 2024 political climate. Bear shares his journey from coming out at 15 to 35+ years of activism and parenting as a queer, trans parent. He opens up about the joys and challenges of inclusive parenting, co-parenting with a known donor, and living progressive values. Bear also introduces his new book, Special Topics in Being a Parent, packed with insights for inclusive parenting. Tune in for a heartfelt, hopeful, and humorous look at modern queer family life.

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🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 

  • Progressive Parenting: Emphasizes the need for inclusive, conscious parenting practices that align with progressive ideals in modern family life.
  • Transitional Advocacy: Bear shares his journey and the pivotal role of educational and activist work in fostering acceptance and understanding.
  • Queer Families: Insights into building and nurturing queer families, addressing known donor situations, adoption laws, and the value of community support.
  • Educational Literatura: Highlights the importance of inclusive literature as seen through Bear's publishing company, Flamingo Rampant.
  • Resilience and Hope: Encourages finding strength and positivity in community bonds during challenging times, particularly relevant to queer parents and children.


🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

  • S. Bear Bergman is a writer, activist, and educator specializing in LGBTQIA+ topics. A queer and trans father, Bear has been involved in activism from a young age. Known for his insightful writing and advocacy, Bear has also established a children's inclusive publishing company, Flamingo Rampant, which focuses on creating literature that celebrates diverse identities in families and communities.


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Hosted by queer mom Jaimie Kelton, The Queer Family Podcast-LGBTQ Families & Queer Parenting Stories offers a weekly space that is both uproariously funny and deeply genuine. Each episode features conversations with LGBTQIA+ parents, hopeful parents, and their allies, delving into the specific joys and hurdles of building a family outside of traditional frameworks. You’ll hear firsthand accounts of the paths to parenthood-from adoption and fostering to IVF and surrogacy-and the everyday realities of raising kids in a world that can still feel unfamiliar. This podcast moves beyond theory, focusing on lived experiences that cover everything from health and fitness routines that work for queer families to navigating complex conversations about sexuality and society with children. The goal is straightforward: to share stories that normalize these experiences, elevate diverse voices, and celebrate the full spectrum of queer family life. Tuning in means connecting with a community, finding resonance in shared challenges, and gathering a lot of practical wisdom-and laughter-along the way. It’s a resource and a companion for anyone curious about or living within the beautifully expansive definition of a modern family.
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