Queer Parenting, Social Media & Fighting LGBTQ+ Hate

Queer Parenting, Social Media & Fighting LGBTQ+ Hate

Author: Jaimie Kelton – Queer Parenting & LGBTQ Families'. March 17, 2025 Duration: 52:32

Caitlyn, one half of @2ladiesand2babies on social media joins Jaimie to talk all things queer parenting, social media, and the ongoing fight for LGBTQIA+ visibility. From hilarious parenting fails to the not-so-funny rise of online hate, they dive into how social media has shifted for queer creators in today's political climate. They also discuss second-parent adoption, why legal protection is a must for LGBTQ+ families, and how to handle the trolls that come with being openly queer online.

This is a fun and heartfelt conversation between two gay moms who are just trying to raise good humans—while also dealing with a lot of ridiculousness from their kids (and the internet).

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🏳️‍🌈 Key Takeaways 🏳️‍🌈

  • (00:01:10) Meet Caitlyn from 2ladiesand2babies—hilarious queer content creator and mom of two.
  • (00:06:05) Parenting is a shit show—but laughing at it helps.
  • (00:12:00) The state of social media: How trolls have ramped up, and why it’s more important than ever to stay visible.
  • (00:22:50) "I’m woke AF." Fighting the myth that woke is a bad word.
  • (00:36:29) Second-parent adoption: What it is, why it matters, and how you might be able to do it yourself without a lawyer.
  • (00:45:31) “I've been lazy.” Jaimie on realizing the fight for LGBTQ+ rights is far from over.
  • (00:50:04) Knitting at a protest? It tracks.

🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈

  • Caitlyn is a social media influencer and content creator who, along with her wife, operates the popular social media account "@2ladiesand2babies." Caitlyn shares candid and humorous insights into her family life as a mom of two boys. She brings a unique perspective as a social worker, while her wife is a homicide detective, giving their audience a multifaceted view of family dynamics and parenting. Caitlyn's content is appreciated for its authenticity and humor, often shedding light on everyday parenting challenges with a queer lens.

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Every family has a story, but the paths taken by LGBTQIA+ parents are often uniquely creative, filled with both profound joy and specific hurdles. The Queer Family Podcast-LGBTQ Families & Queer Parenting Stories is a weekly space where those narratives take center stage. Host Jaimie Kelton, a queer mom herself, guides conversations that are as laugh-out-loud funny as they are deeply moving. Each episode features candid interviews with a diverse range of guests, all sharing the intimate details of how they built their families-from adoption and fostering to IVF, surrogacy, and co-parenting. You’ll hear how these families navigate school systems, healthcare, and everyday social situations, tackling challenges with resilience and humor. This podcast digs into the real stuff of queer family life, covering topics across parenting, health, fitness, and sexuality, all through an authentic LGBTQ lens. The goal isn’t just to share stories; it’s to normalize and celebrate the beautiful spectrum of ways to create a home. Tune in for a sense of community, practical insights, and a powerful reminder that family is about love, in all its forms.
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