The Gay Grandmas of Canada’s Gayest Family: A 50-Year Journey Through LGBTQ+ History

The Gay Grandmas of Canada’s Gayest Family: A 50-Year Journey Through LGBTQ+ History

Author: Jaimie Kelton – Queer Parenting & LGBTQ Families'. June 27, 2024 Duration: 49:15

 Jaimie welcomes the “gay grandmas” of “Canada’s Gayest Family,” Jan and Linda, to the show. They share their compelling journeys through decades of LGBTQ+ history, from living in secrecy to becoming advocates and icons within their community. Joined briefly by Linda's daughter, Karen, they discuss the significance of pride, evolving family dynamics, and the strides made for LGBTQ+ inclusion. Their conversation blends poignant memories with hopeful perspectives, highlighting resilience, activism, and family love.

Listen to the full episode and stay tuned for more enlightening stories from "The Queer Family Podcast.

🏳️‍🌈Thanks to California Cryobank (code LOVEISLOVE), and our ⁠⁠⁠Patreon⁠⁠⁠ supporters.

🏳️‍🌈Interested in advertising? Check out our packages ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠

🏳️‍🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️‍🌈 

  • Generational Perspectives on LGBTQ+ Life: Insight into how LGBTQ+ experiences and societal acceptance have evolved from the 1970s to today.
  • Coming Out Stories: The challenges and triumphs experienced by Jan and Linda as they navigated life in the closet for many years.
  • Family Dynamics in LGBTQ+ Contexts: Emphasis on the complexities and emotional resonance of coming out within one's family.
  • Historical Context: Reflecting on significant LGBT milestones such as the AIDS epidemic and the fight for marriage equality.
  • Pride and Identity: Exploration of what pride means to multiple generations within the same family.


🏳️‍🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️‍🌈 Jan and Linda are affectionately known as the "gay grandmas" and are integral parts of what they call Canada's Gayest Family on TikTok. Together for over 30 years, Jan and Linda have been pivotal in shaping their LGBT community through their advocacy and personal stories. They have lived through significant times in the LGBTQ+ movement, including the secretive days of the 70s, the AIDS epidemic, and the vibrant progressiveness of modern times. Jan hails from Australia and has been part of activist movements, while Linda, originally from Canada, navigated a closeted life until the societal tides began to turn. Their daughter Karen, who also identifies as a lesbian, has carried forward their legacy and documented their remarkable journey through social media and film.

🏳️‍🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: 

  • Sponsor: Visit https://www.cryobank.com/ and use promo code LOVEISLOVE for a free level 2 subscription to their donor catalog, or you can apply it to a level 3 subscription for a discount.
  • Canada’s Gayest Family on TikTok 
  • Documentary Details: “Unusually Normal” and “Our Gay Family" (Pending release details on HBO/Netflix and OutTV)


🏳️‍🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on⁠⁠⁠ Patreon ⁠⁠⁠for as low as $2/month!

🏳️‍🌈We want to hear from you! Call us: 646-470-1840 ⁠⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠IG⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠FB⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠/⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠: @thequeerfamilypodcast

🏳️‍🌈Watch Video Episodes right now on ⁠⁠⁠YouTube⁠⁠⁠ and on ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠

🏳️‍🌈Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on ⁠⁠⁠Amazon⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠IndieBound⁠⁠⁠, ⁠⁠⁠Audible⁠⁠⁠.

🏳️‍🌈Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: ⁠⁠⁠Tiffany Topol⁠⁠⁠\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato.

🏳️‍🌈Buy our merch ⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠

🏳️‍🌈For a full transcript of this episode and more info about the host visit our ⁠⁠⁠website



Our Sponsors:
* Check out Outdoorsy and use my code QUEERFAM for a great deal: https://www.outdoorsy.com


Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Every family has a story, but the paths taken by LGBTQIA+ parents are often uniquely creative, filled with both profound joy and specific hurdles. The Queer Family Podcast-LGBTQ Families & Queer Parenting Stories is a weekly space where those narratives take center stage. Host Jaimie Kelton, a queer mom herself, guides conversations that are as laugh-out-loud funny as they are deeply moving. Each episode features candid interviews with a diverse range of guests, all sharing the intimate details of how they built their families-from adoption and fostering to IVF, surrogacy, and co-parenting. You’ll hear how these families navigate school systems, healthcare, and everyday social situations, tackling challenges with resilience and humor. This podcast digs into the real stuff of queer family life, covering topics across parenting, health, fitness, and sexuality, all through an authentic LGBTQ lens. The goal isn’t just to share stories; it’s to normalize and celebrate the beautiful spectrum of ways to create a home. Tune in for a sense of community, practical insights, and a powerful reminder that family is about love, in all its forms.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 100

The Queer Family Podcast – LGBTQ Families & Queer Parenting Stories
Podcast Episodes
Bonus Replay | Out And Proud With The Mazelins [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 56:07
This joyful, visibility-filled throwback deserves another listen.Originally aired during our 2023 Pride Extravaganza, this episode features Brian and Alec Mazelin, a gay couple raising their daughter and showing up onlin…
Bonus Replay | Celebrating What DeSantis Fears (w/ Peggy Gillespie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 43:49
This Pride Month warm-up replay is a must-listen.Peggy Gillespie—author, queer parent, and co-director of Family Diversity Projects—has been celebrating LGBTQIA+ families and underrepresented voices for decades. In this…
The Donor Mix-Up That Made A Family [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 53:50
Kim and Katie walk us through their ultra-intentional path to queer family building: from meeting online and moving in together lesbian-fast, to getting certified as foster parents just in case, to navigating a heartbrea…
Known Donor, Known Love: Kait, Sophie & Oliver’s Story [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 53:20
What happens when your best friend offers to help you make a baby?Jaimie sits down with Kait and Sophie—two queer folks trying to build their family—and their longtime friend (and now known donor!) Oliver. Together, they…
Building a Family with Reciprocal IVF (at the Same Time!) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:09:31
Two mamas. Two wombs. One donor. In this episode, Ana and Becky share their epic journey of building a family through simultaneous reciprocal IVF—yes, they were both pregnant at the same time. From pandemic sperm shortag…
T4T and Totally in Love: Jacob and Riley's Queer Family Journey [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 54:53
Jaimie sits down with Jacob and Riley, a T4T (trans-for-trans) couple redefining what it means to be a modern family. From co-parenting with Jacob’s platonic best friend to conceiving their son using nothing but love, ti…
From Foster to Forever: A Gay Dad's Journey Through UK Adoption [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:03:28
Jaimie sits down with Liam—a Scottish-born, England-based gay dad—who shares the winding road he and his husband took to adopt their daughter through the UK’s foster-to-adopt system. From intense evaluations to surprise…
Queer Parenting, Social Media & Fighting LGBTQ+ Hate [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 52:32
Caitlyn, one half of @2ladiesand2babies on social media joins Jaimie to talk all things queer parenting, social media, and the ongoing fight for LGBTQIA+ visibility. From hilarious parenting fails to the not-so-funny ris…