#264: Another Way to Understand It

#264: Another Way to Understand It

Author: Kim John Payne/Center for Social Sustainability May 21, 2025 Duration: 11:03

Kim offers a fresh perspective on childhood anger, inviting parents to view it as a natural attempt to restore emotional balance. Anger may surface when a child feels powerless, ignored, or overwhelmed, and while it can be loud or disruptive, it is not something to fear. Using the metaphor of a blacksmith’s forge, Kim explains how parents can stay close without getting swept into the heat of the moment. Their calm presence acts like the blacksmith who patiently shapes the molten metal. With steadiness and empathy, adults can help a child begin to settle and eventually work through what caused the outburst. This approach brings dignity and compassion to one of the hardest parenting challenges.

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Kim John Payne, author of the bestselling book "Simplicity Parenting," brings his decades of experience as a family counselor and educator directly to you in The Simplicity Parenting Podcast with Kim John Payne. Each episode feels like a thoughtful conversation, moving beyond quick tips to explore the deeper rhythms of family life. You’ll hear practical wisdom on reducing the clutter-not just of toys, but of schedules, expectations, and digital noise-that so often overwhelms modern childhood. This podcast delves into how creating a calmer, more predictable home environment can strengthen your child's resilience, focus, and sense of security. Payne addresses real questions from parents, offering grounded strategies for everything from sibling rivalry and screen time to fostering authentic play and emotional well-being. The discussions are rooted in the understanding that simplifying isn't about deprivation, but about making space for connection and growth. Tune in for a supportive, nuanced exploration of parenting that honors the unique spirit of your family. Each weekly episode serves as a gentle reminder that the most meaningful moments often arise from a less hurried, more intentional approach to life together.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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#200: No You Do It - When Kids Feign Helplessness [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 14:29
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#198: Drawing Close When Someone is Vulnerable [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 10:46
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#197: The Real Gifting - Modeling Authenticity [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 15:07
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#195: It's Okay To See Things Differently [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 15:29
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#194: Kids Taking Control... In the Right Way [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 11:27
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#193: When a Parent is Struggling With Addiction [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 18:14
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