Vibes and Tribes - TS15

Vibes and Tribes - TS15

Author: Tori and Soul, Same-Sex Female Bisexual Couple in the Swinging Lifestyle August 6, 2019 Duration: 1:05:01
The skill of finding play partners, what do you look for?  Is it physical attraction? Is it mental? Emotional? Do need to get to know others?  Do you play and never repeat?  Do you prefer established partners. In the lifestyle, just like in life, there are a variety of vibes and tribes.  It may seem silly, and obvious, to say this... and it is an obvious truth.
You may think everyone is in it for the same thing.  We are... aaand we're not.  You will meet some people that you jive with, and just as often, you will encounter those who don't.  People will approach you strictly interested in the physical activity of sex - for them it may be all about getting as much as possible.  Some people will think this is awesome, while others could be offended by the quick assessment and decision to play or not to play.  You will also meet people who take time getting to know you, before getting to the point of having sex.  Being approached by someone who does not match your vibe can be quite discouraging.  In this episode we will chat about the importance of knowing that, even here, in the lifestyle, you will need to find those you resonate with. Listen in and discover how you can be less discouraged and offended, and much more successful when finding others to play with.
 
 
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At the heart of Torrid Souls is a real, ongoing conversation between two people building a life together on their own terms. Hosts Tori and Soul are a married same-sex female bisexual couple, partners for over ten years who now navigate the complexities and joys of the swinging lifestyle not just as lovers, but as parents. This isn't a theoretical discussion; it's grounded in the daily reality of maintaining a passionate, committed relationship while exploring ethical non-monogamy. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair to their kitchen table, listening as they dissect the social adventures, the inevitable misunderstandings, and the profound connections that can form outside traditional boundaries. They talk about the intersection of sexuality and fitness, how personal health impacts relationships, and the cultural nuances of living authentically in a society that often expects a simpler story. The podcast resonates deeply with couples who are secure in their love but curious about how opening their relationship might actually strengthen their bond. Whether you're actively exploring alternative lifestyles or just seeking a more honest dialogue about long-term partnership, Tori and Soul offer a rare, unfiltered perspective. Their journey provides a specific, human lens on topics that are often shrouded in secrecy or sensationalism, making every conversation in this podcast both relatable and genuinely enlightening.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 33

Torrid Souls
Podcast Episodes
Boobs & Big Blue at Oasis - TS11 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 48:17
Toronto, with its 5 lifestyle clubs in the area, is the sex club capital of North America. In this episode we chose Oasis AquaLounge as the place to be. The perfect place to go to chill out or be sexy, or both, and on th…
Booty Call Blues: Handling Disappointment - TS10 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 45:12
Truth be told, this episode was a challenge for us. It was a challenge to record and a challenge to edit. It's about disappointment. Admittedly, not a happy topic, and disappointment will happen. It's never easy. How do…
A Hard Man is Good to Find - TS9 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 46:14
What's next in the adventures of Tori and Soul? Another booty call attempt, that's what! In our last episode, we had our first-ever booty call and it was a success (albeit with someone we already know). Well, in this epi…
Booty Call Therapy - TS8 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 59:06
More in-the-moment epiphanies and ah-ha moments. In this episode, it's, literally, the morning after our first-ever booty call! We are still in bed and the pillow talk gets cerebral. And once again, we get pleasantly sur…
Dating Penises - TS7 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 42:48
Penises. Penes. Palos. Mangueros. Pollas. Oh My! Up until this point in our journey into CNM (Consensual Non-Monogamy) we met penis-endowed playmates at clubs, resorts, parties or events. We made our decisions primarily,…
2018's Hottest Adventures. Naughty19 Here We Come! - TS6 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 55:45
HAPPY NEW YEAR! Join us as we recap our most favourite sexy times of 2018 and tell you all about the naughtiness that we'll be up to in 2019. In this episode we turn on the party lights, have a few drinks (and probably w…
Tangled Christmas Lights - TS5 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 50:59
Choosing to swing means that you have to get clear about what you want. Who are you? What kind of experience do you desire? What are you afraid of? It's a sorting process once you've decided to open up to including other…
Naughty Virgins - NIN2018 - TS4 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 58:01
Naughty in N'awlins: if you haven't gone yet, you'll want to. This was our first time at NIN, the largest lifestyle convention, for couples, in the world! Over 1,000 couples, a full takeover of the French Quarter's bigge…
It's Raining Men, Hallelujah! - TS3 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 50:20
Just to recap about us, we recently got married, and during the many months of wedding prep we were so exhausted, and with not a lot of time to be sexy. We flippantly said, that once we could, we would go on a RAMPAGE! W…
Heeey... You're Sexy! - TS2 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 36:41
Consensual non-monogamy is so much more than just being open to including others who are outside of your primary relationship. It's not just about doing it with others. It's more about opening your own mind about who you…