Stop Playing Small: Confidence, Judgment, and the Stories We Tell

Stop Playing Small: Confidence, Judgment, and the Stories We Tell

Author: Charlie Hobbis March 25, 2025 Duration: 25:50

What if your self-image was quietly capping your success? In this episode, Charlie shares a powerful session from their recent retreat with growth coach Dawn McGruer, unpacking how confidence, mindset, and even the way we describe our work are shaping what’s possible in business and life. It’s part pep talk, part reality check, with plenty of relatable moments.

We’re talking self-worth, judgement, and why you might still be saying “just” way too much. If you’ve ever downplayed your ambitions or hesitated to own what you do, this one will hit home, in the best way.

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Here are the HIghlights:

Dawn's Session (1:48)

Personal Reflections on Self-Image and Confidence (4:17)

Judgment and Societal Expectations (7:17)

Confidence and Internal Validation (9:13)

Goals and Ambition (16:04)

Language Traps and Affirmations (19:32)

Final Thoughts and Exciting Announcement! (23:42)



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There’s a lot of noise out there about building a personal brand, especially for creators and entrepreneurs trying to make a real business from their influence. Unfiltered Influence cuts through that noise. Host Charlie Hobbis, who founded OAC and has spent years deep in the mechanics of influencer marketing, doesn’t rely on hype or vague inspiration. Instead, he opens up the playbook for an industry that can seem opaque from the outside. This podcast is built on straightforward, honest conversations that tackle the real challenges of turning a following into a sustainable career. You’ll hear from a range of voices-seasoned experts and those who’ve navigated the path themselves-discussing practical strategies for marketing, the personal toll of public work, and the cultural shifts shaping digital entrepreneurship. It’s for anyone who’s tired of the surface-level advice and wants the unvarnished truth about what works. Each episode is designed to deliver actionable insights you can apply directly, whether you're examining your own creative journals or planning your next business move. Tune in for a candid look at the intersection of personal brand, business, and modern society, all without the filter.
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