4: Let’s Get Intimate… With Money & Ourselves

4: Let’s Get Intimate… With Money & Ourselves

Author: Vanessa Ruiz October 29, 2025 Duration: 39:08
 What if your orientation did a plot twist mid-life? After 20 years of dating women, a long marriage, and the whole postpartum identity tornado — I start noticing men. Not every man. Not a straight-backflip romance. Just a new, confusing, delicious pull I didn’t expect.
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This episode is me, unfiltered: about sex after motherhood, the shame and freedom of changing desire, and how attraction and abundance both want you to show up differently. It’s taboo, tender, hilarious, and honestly — life-changing. Listen if you like messy truth, radical self-honesty, and the kind of conversations people whisper about at brunch. Miss this and you’ll still be guessing tomorrow.

✨ Listen if you’re ready to explore the gray, flirt with the unknown, and manifest the kind of freedom that feels like magic.

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Vanessa is a lot of things: a first-generation Latina, a single mom, a life coach, and someone who’s learned that healing isn't a quiet, polite process. In Unicorns Do Exist, she brings all those identities to the microphone, creating a space that feels like a candid conversation with a close friend who’s been through it. You’ll hear her break down stigmas around mental health and share stories of heartbreak not as endings, but as turning points. The real talk here is grounded in the belief that owning every part of your journey-the messy, the painful, the glorious-is where true transformation begins. This podcast is a blend of personal journal, cultural commentary, and coaching sessions, all woven together with what she calls 'cheesemé'-that perfect mix of heartfelt cheese and spicy truth. Episodes dive into the realities of building a life on your own terms, especially for those who’ve ever felt marginalized or told they were "too much." It’s about finding the high vibes without bypassing the hard work, and the glow-up that comes from radical self-acceptance. Tuning in, you’re not just getting advice; you’re getting a companion for the ride, a reminder that your unique magic isn't just a fantasy-it's your real, undeniable power waiting to be claimed.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 22

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12: Consider This My Christmas Gift [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:31
I answered your questions and overshared on purpose — you’re welcome 😌🎄 This episode is my Christmas gift to you 🎄🦄 No lessons. No fixing. Just me — answering your questions, oversharing a little, laughing a lot, and let…
11: Everything Happens for a Reason (Even This Mess) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 40:19
In this episode, Vanessa shares the full story of her Mexico City trip — the good, the bad, and the not-so-funny-but-somehow-still-funny parts life likes to throw in when you least expect it. What starts as a trip rooted…
10: ✨ Starting Over Like It’s a Hobby ✨ [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 23:18
If you’re starting over right now — by choice or because life snatched the rug from under you — this episode is your sign. Not the soft, gentle kind… the “get up, Doll, your glow-up is calling” kind. ✨😈 We’re talking: 🔥…
9: When Choosing You Makes You the Villain (Good.) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 26:56
Step into your villain era, Doll — the era where you stop shrinking, stop apologizing, and stop carrying relationships, friendships, and dynamics that drain the life out of you. This episode of Unicorns Do Exist is for t…
8: Multicultural & Unapologetic: Why Your Identity Is Your Superpower [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 43:31
In today’s episode of Unicorns Do Exist, we’re welcoming our very first guest — and trust me, she’s a full-blown unicorn in human form. ✨ Meet Urmi: an Italian-Bengali powerhouse living in Montreal, a corporate finance p…
7: Dark Unicorn Energy: The Side of You They Never Expected [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 41:59
Doll… if you’ve been acting like a cute little glitter unicorn but deep down you know you’ve got claws? Yeah. This episode is for you. Today we’re getting into the Dark Feminine — the part of you that doesn’t chase, does…
6: Unicorns Don’t Ghost — They Reconnect 💜 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 35:31
Ever wonder how to fall back in love with the person sleeping next to you? 🫣 In this episode, I dive into “Mating in Captivity” by Esther Perel — and what it really takes to keep the spark alive in long-term relationship…
5: You’re Not a Saint — You’re Just Scared [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 25:44
Let’s get one thing straight — staying in a relationship just to look like the “nice one” isn’t selfless, it’s self-sabotage. 💅 In this episode, Vanessa calls out the truth we all avoid: sometimes we hide behind kindness…
3: Inside a Unicorn’s Mind [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 55:22
Ever wondered what really happens inside the mind of someone who smiles through the chaos? Yeah… welcome inside mine. 🦄 In this episode, I get real about my lifelong battle with mental health — the anxiety that made me o…
2: Welcome to the Magic: Delusional? Maybe. But It’s Working. [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 22:41
Welcome to the beautiful chaos that started it all. In this episode, I get real about where I’ve been — from a 5150 hold to healing, from losing a ten-year “PERFECT” relationship to finding myself again. I talk about the…