Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety & Pleasure Products for Better Sex in the Swinger Lifestyle (Promescent CEO)
Author: Cate and Darrell
January 26, 2026
Duration: 56:28
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories
EP213 – Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety & Pleasure Products for Better Sex in the Swinger Lifestyle (Promescent CEO)
Sex toys, delay sprays, arousal gels, performance anxiety, libido, orgasms, and why using sexual wellness products does not mean you’re “bad in bed.”
In this episode, we’re joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, one of the world’s most trusted sexual wellness brands, to talk about the real science, real psychology, and real-world use of pleasure products — especially in the swinger and non-monogamous lifestyle.
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We dive deep into premature ejaculation, the arousal gap, performance pressure, female pleasure, and why the best lovers in the world use tools.
We also explore the incredible backstory of Promescent, including clinical trials, urologists, turning down a $30M pharma buyout, and why Jeff was determined to keep these products available next to condoms, not behind a prescription counter.
If you’ve ever wondered:
- Is using a delay spray cheating?
- Is performance anxiety mental or physical?
- Do arousal gels actually work?
- What should be in a swinger’s hoe-on-the-go bag?
- How do you last longer with multiple partners?
In This Episode
- The biggest myths about sexual wellness products and what they really mean
- Why the best lovers in the world use performance and pleasure aids
- The real science behind premature ejaculation (and why it’s mostly physiological)
- The “arousal gap” and why most women need more time than most men
- Performance anxiety vs physical dysfunction — which is more common?
- The true story of turning down a $30M pharma acquisition
- How Promescent went from one product to 20,000+ retail stores (Target, Walgreens, CVS, etc.)
- Spray vs wipes: which works best and when to use each
- How long delay spray lasts and how to reapply in multi-partner scenarios
- What swingers should actually carry in their hoe-on-the-go bag
- Female pleasure, arousal gels, blood flow, and why warming/buzzing gels work
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