Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety & Pleasure Products for Better Sex in the Swinger Lifestyle (Promescent CEO)

Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety & Pleasure Products for Better Sex in the Swinger Lifestyle (Promescent CEO)

Author: Cate and Darrell January 26, 2026 Duration: 56:28
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Lifestyle Stories EP213 – Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety & Pleasure Products for Better Sex in the Swinger Lifestyle (Promescent CEO) Sex toys, delay sprays, arousal gels, performance anxiety, libido, orgasms, and why using sexual wellness products does not mean you’re “bad in bed.” In this episode, we’re joined by Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, one of the world’s most trusted sexual wellness brands, to talk about the real science, real psychology, and real-world use of pleasure products — especially in the swinger and non-monogamous lifestyle.   Premature Ejaculation Spray, Delay Wipes, Arousal Gels & Sexual Wellness Products with PromescentGet 15% off using code wanderlust26https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26   We dive deep into premature ejaculation, the arousal gap, performance pressure, female pleasure, and why the best lovers in the world use tools. We also explore the incredible backstory of Promescent, including clinical trials, urologists, turning down a $30M pharma buyout, and why Jeff was determined to keep these products available next to condoms, not behind a prescription counter. If you’ve ever wondered: - Is using a delay spray cheating? - Is performance anxiety mental or physical? - Do arousal gels actually work? - What should be in a swinger’s hoe-on-the-go bag? - How do you last longer with multiple partners?   In This Episode - The biggest myths about sexual wellness products and what they really mean - Why the best lovers in the world use performance and pleasure aids - The real science behind premature ejaculation (and why it’s mostly physiological) - The “arousal gap” and why most women need more time than most men - Performance anxiety vs physical dysfunction — which is more common? - The true story of turning down a $30M pharma acquisition - How Promescent went from one product to 20,000+ retail stores (Target, Walgreens, CVS, etc.) - Spray vs wipes: which works best and when to use each - How long delay spray lasts and how to reapply in multi-partner scenarios - What swingers should actually carry in their hoe-on-the-go bag - Female pleasure, arousal gels, blood flow, and why warming/buzzing gels work   Useful Links from This Episode: Join us at a Swingers Event:https://wanderlustswingers.com/swingers-events/ Wanderlust Swingers Website:https://wanderlustswingers.com/ Patreon – Event photos, behind-the-scenes & extra content:https://www.patreon.com/SwingingDownunder Join SDC – Find swingers near you & explore events:https://www.sdc.com/?ref=32122   Sponsors Comprehensive STI testing (USA Only) with STD HeroGet 10% off, use code Libertinehttps://mybls.com/Libertine Premature Ejaculation Spray, Delay Wipes, Arousal Gels & Sexual Wellness Products with PromescentGet 15% off using code wanderlust26https://www.promescent.com/wanderlust26   Sexual Wellness, Performance Anxiety, Premature Ejaculation, Delay Spray, Pleasure Products, Swingers, Swinger Podcast, Better Sex, Non-Monogamy, Open Relationships, Lifestyle Sex, Arousal Gel, Female Pleasure, Male Performance, Last Longer in Bed, Sex Toys for Couples, Promescent, Urologist-Backed Sex Products, Sexual Health Podcast, Wanderlust Swingers Podcast

Cate and Darrell are an Australian couple who’ve built a life around open, honest conversations about non-monogamy. Their show, Wanderlust Swingers-A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories, is a direct line into the realities of the swinging and hotwife lifestyles, far removed from sensationalism or fantasy. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair with two experienced, grounded friends who aren’t afraid to share their own missteps, joys, and ongoing evolution within this community. You’ll hear them recount their personal adventures, from navigating local events to reviewing venues and experiences with a sex-positive lens, always focusing on communication, trust, and practical realities. The heart of this podcast, however, often lies in the global stories they gather. Cate and Darrell regularly interview other swingers from around the world, creating a rich tapestry of perspectives that highlights both the universal challenges and the beautifully diverse ways people structure their relationships and explore their sexuality. It’s a space that normalizes these discussions within broader contexts of health, culture, and society. For anyone curious, new, or deeply embedded in this world, this podcast offers a blend of personal narrative and community voice, all delivered with a distinctly Aussie warmth and straightforward charm. It’s real talk about connection, boundaries, and the pursuit of pleasure, one candid story at a time.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

Wanderlust Swingers - A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories
Podcast Episodes
Cap d’Agde A UK Swingers Experience [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 50:45
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP203 – Cap d’Agde: A UK Swingers Experience Is Cap d’Agde the ultimate swingers paradise... or an overhyped nudist town with overpriced rosé and questio…
Solo Hotwife Play Date [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 55:22
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP202 – Solo Hotwife Play Date: From Lingerie Nerves to a CU-soaked Finish Welcome to a juicy bonus episode of Wanderlust Swingers! In this unscheduled,…
Swinger Event Hosting Isn’t for the Weak [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 54:38
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP201 – Swinger Event Hosting Isn’t for the Weak Ever wondered what it really takes to host a swingers lifestyle event? From clogged toilets in lingerie…
Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 35:48
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP200 – Hotwife Glory Hole Experience & 3 New Swingers Clubs in 3 Weeks In our 200th episode, Cate and Darrell reflect on a decade in the lifestyle — an…
Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire in the Swingers Lifestyle [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 32:45
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories EP199 – Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire in the Swingers Lifestyle In this episode, Cate and Darrell dive into the psychology and practicality of spont…
Cap D Agde Desires, What’s in the Box and How to Small Talk [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 53:42
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle StoriesEP198 – Cap D Agde Desires, What’s in the Box and How to Small Talk Cate’s fresh back from Miami (just her this time!) and while we only touch on that wi…
Sexual Trauma and the Swinger Lifestyle: What You Need to Know [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 42:24
How does sexual trauma affect your lifestyle journey? Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of sexual trauma, abuse, and emotional triggers. Please take care while listening. In this vulnerable and powerful e…
Rediscovering Soft Swap at a Swingers Club Fun4Two Netherlands [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 57:45
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories Cate and Darrell revisit soft swap play for the first time in seven years — and it happened at none other than Fun4Two, the iconic swingers club in the…
Fighting for Freedom: Wicked Fun Club vs. the Town of Plymouth [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 30:42
In this important episode, Cate speaks with Steve Gagne, owner of Wicked Fun Club, a private members-only lifestyle venue in Connecticut that has recently been issued a cease and desist order by the Town of Plymouth. Onl…
Swingers and Scarcity: Overcoming FOMO, Settling, and Playing Smart [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 35:43
Wanderlust Swingers – A Swinger Podcast & Hotwife Lifestyle Stories In this thought-provoking episode of Wanderlust Swingers, Cate and Darrell dive deep into the Scarcity vs. Abundance mindset in the swinger lifestyle. A…