Relationship Expert: Fighting Isn't What Destroys Love! It's What You Do After

Relationship Expert: Fighting Isn't What Destroys Love! It's What You Do After

Author: Josh Trent March 10, 2026 Duration: 1:25:53

What if conflict is not what destroys your relationship, but the inability to repair after the conflict?

Josh Trent welcomes Jayson Gaddis to the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 805, to reveal why conflict is an unavoidable part of love, how childhood conditioning shapes the way we fight and repair, why intimacy requires both closeness and separation, how anxious and avoidant attachment create relationship gridlock, and why learning the art of repair is the real skill that keeps relationships connected, honest, and alive.


In This Episode, Jayson Gaddis Uncovers:

  • (01:20) Conflict Is Part of Relationships
  • (05:20) It Starts With Your Parents
  • (09:15) Your Suffering Guides You to Your Purpose
  • (15:05) The Spirituality of Relationships
  • (19:45) Ancestral Healing
  • (26:40) The Duality of Relationships
  • (30:10) The Teacher Is The Student
  • (34:10) Why The Ego Seeks Safety
  • (41:40) The Consequences of Disconnection and Closed Heart
  • (46:40) Learn How to Repair
  • (53:05) Are Your Expectations Reasonable?
  • (01:00:20) Your Pain Is Being Used for Profit
  • (01:07:50) The Distortions
  • (01:13:45) Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Dynamic
  • (01:19:50) How to Create Lightness

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