Self-Sabotage is a Lie: The Hidden Duality Keeping You Stuck | Dr. John Demartini

Self-Sabotage is a Lie: The Hidden Duality Keeping You Stuck | Dr. John Demartini

Author: Josh Trent February 24, 2026 Duration: 1:27:13

Is self-sabotage the result of rejecting one side of your own duality?

Josh Trent welcomes Dr. John Demartini to the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast, episode 803, to dismantle the myth of self sabotage, reveal how duality governs perception and destiny, unpack why pride and shame distort authenticity, explore the hidden order behind chaos and so called evil, and show how integrating opposites through the right questions unlocks gratitude, fulfillment, and true self mastery.


In This Episode, Dr. John Demartini Uncovers:

  • (01:15) Self-Sabotage Is a Myth
  • (05:00) Mastery Happens Through The Opposites
  • (09:25) Perception Changes Absolutely Everything
  • (14:40) Values Hierarchy
  • (19:50) Pride VS Gratitude
  • (27:15) You Can't Get Rid of The Ego
  • (31:45) What Stops Your Growth
  • (34:35) What Is God?
  • (40:10) The Purpose of Evil
  • (46:25) The Illusion of Morality
  • (51:55) Teach Your Children Accountability
  • (58:10) Good and Bad Don't Exist
  • (01:00:50) Your Values Define You
  • (01:07:45) Synthesis + Synchronicity
  • (01:10:35) You're Part of The Matrix
  • (01:14:40) Ask The Right Questions
  • (01:17:25) Love + Gratitude Are The Key

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Hosted by Josh Trent, the Wellness + Wisdom Podcast serves as a gathering place for anyone looking to navigate the complexities of contemporary life with a greater sense of balance and purpose. Rather than offering quick fixes, conversations are designed to explore foundational aspects of our existence-what Josh calls the "Pentagon of Wellness," which encompasses physical, emotional, mental, spiritual, and financial health. The approach here is deliberate, taking a single topic and examining it from multiple angles to uncover practical, embodied wisdom. You’ll hear Josh engage with a variety of voices and ideas, consistently asking the thoughtful, often challenging questions that get to the heart of what authentic well-being really means. Tuning into this podcast feels like joining a thoughtful dialogue where insights from each episode are meant to be applied, creating tangible shifts in how you move through your days. It’s a resource for those who believe that thriving in our modern world requires an integrated, courageous look at all the facets of a human life.
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