Parenting Through Pain: Understanding Mental Health and Loss

Parenting Through Pain: Understanding Mental Health and Loss

Author: Lianne Castelino July 25, 2026 Duration: 34:23

What happens when a parent faces the unimaginable loss of a child to suicide?

In this episode of the Where Parents Talk podcast, host Lianne Castelino speaks with pediatric nurse practitioner and author Jackie Baker about her personal journey through grief after losing her son, Sebastian.

Drawing from her book Messy Mourning, Baker shares raw insights into maternal grief, the stigma surrounding suicide, and the long road toward healing.

This conversation explores mental health challenges in teens, the emotional toll on families, and the importance of compassion, support systems, and open dialogue. Baker also offers practical advice for parents navigating anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation in their children—while reminding listeners that hope can coexist with sorrow.

An important listen for parents seeking understanding, support, and guidance through one of life’s most difficult experiences.

Takeaways:

  • Navigating the emotional landscape of grief requires open communication and support from others.
  • Understanding the unique layers of guilt and shame surrounding suicide helps in the healing process.
  • Mothers often experience grief differently, influenced by their deep bond with their children.
  • Acceptance of one's emotional health is crucial in developing resilience after a loss, especially in dealing with mental health challenges.

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Links referenced in this episode:

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