Parenting Through Pain: Understanding Mental Health and Loss

Parenting Through Pain: Understanding Mental Health and Loss

Author: Lianne Castelino July 25, 2026 Duration: 34:23

What happens when a parent faces the unimaginable loss of a child to suicide?

In this episode of the Where Parents Talk podcast, host Lianne Castelino speaks with pediatric nurse practitioner and author Jackie Baker about her personal journey through grief after losing her son, Sebastian.

Drawing from her book Messy Mourning, Baker shares raw insights into maternal grief, the stigma surrounding suicide, and the long road toward healing.

This conversation explores mental health challenges in teens, the emotional toll on families, and the importance of compassion, support systems, and open dialogue. Baker also offers practical advice for parents navigating anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideation in their children—while reminding listeners that hope can coexist with sorrow.

An important listen for parents seeking understanding, support, and guidance through one of life’s most difficult experiences.

Takeaways:

  • Navigating the emotional landscape of grief requires open communication and support from others.
  • Understanding the unique layers of guilt and shame surrounding suicide helps in the healing process.
  • Mothers often experience grief differently, influenced by their deep bond with their children.
  • Acceptance of one's emotional health is crucial in developing resilience after a loss, especially in dealing with mental health challenges.

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You’ll learn the latest on topics like managing bullying, consent, fostering healthy relationships, and the interconnectedness of mental, emotional and physical health.

Links referenced in this episode:

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Raising children in this era comes with a unique set of questions, and Where Parents Talk: Evidence-based Expert Advice on Raising Kids Today is here to offer clarity, not just opinions. Hosted by award-winning journalist and mother Lianne Castelino, this weekly conversation moves beyond anecdotal advice to explore the science and research behind modern parenting. Each episode feels like a thoughtful discussion with a knowledgeable friend, one who brings in leading experts and thinkers to tackle the real issues families face. You’ll hear practical strategies for navigating everything from the emotional turbulence of adolescence to building a foundation of healthy communication from a young age. The focus is on holistic development-addressing the emotional, mental, and physical well-being of both kids and their parents. Lianne’s skill as an interviewer helps distill complex topics into actionable insights, making this podcast a reliable resource for anyone looking to ground their parenting choices in evidence and shared experience. It’s a space where the noise of conflicting advice fades, replaced by informed conversations that empower you to find your own path through the joys and challenges of family life.
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