Why Teens Check Out of School—and How to Bring Them Back

Why Teens Check Out of School—and How to Bring Them Back

Author: Lianne Castelino July 12, 2025 Duration: 36:36

In today’s episode of the Where Parents Talk podcast, host Lianne Castelino delves into the findings of educational experts Jenny Anderson and Rebecca Winthrop, authors of 'The Disengaged Teen.' They share their insights on the various modes of learning—Passenger, Achiever, Resistor, and Explorer—and how understanding these can empower parents to better support their children. Through a blend of qualitative and quantitative research, the authors share the importance of fostering an environment where curiosity thrives and students regain their independence in learning.

Anderson and Winthrop explore actionable tips for parents to help their teens navigate the complexities of school life, from addressing emotional health to fostering better communication and discipline.

What you'll learn:

  • Why the disengagement of teens from school becomes pronounced during their transition into middle school
  • How parents can play a pivotal role in their children's educational engagement
  • Understanding the different modes of learning—Passenger, Achiever, Resistor, and Explorer
  • Why promoting emotional health in teens involves encouraging curiosity and resilience
  • Extracurricular activities can serve as vital outlets for teens
  • Why the importance of consent and healthy relationships is increasingly relevant for teens

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Companies mentioned in this episode:

  • New York Times
  • Quartz
  • Time
  • the Atlantic
  • Brookings Institute
  • Georgetown University
  • Transcend Education

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You’ll learn the latest on topics like managing bullying, consent, fostering healthy relationships, and the interconnectedness of mental, emotional and physical health.


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