Finding the Third Way: Conflict, Compassion, and Why Pets Matter with Amanda Ripley

Finding the Third Way: Conflict, Compassion, and Why Pets Matter with Amanda Ripley

Author: Debra Hamilton, Esq. May 8, 2025 Duration: 47:51
I’m beyond thrilled to welcome my friend Amanda Ripley to the Why Do Pets Matter podcast! Amanda is a brilliant journalist and the author of one of my all-time favorite books, High Conflict. In this episode, we talk all about what happens when we stop digging in our heels and start leaning into connection—yes, even in the middle of a disagreement (or two).   Amanda and I dive into how good conflict—the kind that challenges and stretches us without tearing us apart—can show up in all areas of life, from Capitol Hill to our own backyards. And you know I had to bring it back to pets! We talk about how animals can become both the heart of a dispute and the key to healing, and why conversations about pets often open the door to deeper understanding.   You’ll also hear Amanda share how a former gang leader inspired her to think differently about political violence (and dog sharing, believe it or not!), and we reflect on what it means to regulate our emotions, listen actively, and choose curiosity over conflict. Listen and Download: Watch the video version: https://youtu.be/gl3YVlWpQ5E   Guest Links: https://www.thegoodconflict.com/ https://www.amandaripley.com/high-conflict   Show Links: https://hamiltonlawandmediation.com/ https://www.facebook.com/HLawMediation Debra's Book: "Nipped in the Bud, Not in the Butt: How to Use Mediation To Resolve Conflicts Over Animals," https://www.amazon.com/Nipped-Bud-Not-Butt-Mediation/dp/151502024X/ref=sr_1_1 SUBSCRIBE: https://www.youtube.com/@HLawMediation

Debra Hamilton, Esq. brings a unique perspective to the conversation about our animal companions on Why Do Pets Matter?. As an attorney who specializes in pet-focused law, she navigates the often-overlooked complexities that arise when pets are part of our families and communities. Each episode explores the tangible, sometimes messy, realities of life with animals-from the legal intricacies of pet custody during a divorce to the everyday dilemmas and joys that pet owners face. Debra is joined by a variety of fascinating guests, ensuring conversations are rich with diverse viewpoints and practical solutions. This podcast digs into the science of our bonds with animals, the nature of their care, and how these relationships shape family life, making it a thoughtful listen for adults and curious kids alike. You’ll find the discussions are grounded in real-world stories, moving beyond simple anecdotes to examine why these creatures hold such an essential place in our homes and hearts. Tune in for a deeper understanding of the problems, the drama, and the profound connections that define our shared world with pets.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 173

Why Do Pets Matter? Hosted by Debra Hamilton, Esq.
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