The Real Reason You Keep Attracting the Wrong Buyer

The Real Reason You Keep Attracting the Wrong Buyer

Author: Julie Solomon April 6, 2026 Duration: 20:11
In this episode, I’m diving into the real reason you keep attracting the wrong buyers—and it’s probably not what you think. I share how this pattern is often rooted in your messaging, positioning, and the version of you that your brand is still speaking from. If you’re consistently bringing in people who aren’t ready, aren’t aligned, or aren’t a fit for the level you’re operating at, it’s not random—it’s a reflection of what you’re signaling. I walk you through how to shift that by refining your messaging, raising your standards, and getting clear on who you’re actually here to serve now—not who you were serving before. This is about more than calling in “better clients”—it’s about becoming more precise, more embodied, and more honest in how you communicate your value. If you’re ready to stop over-delivering, over-explaining, or attracting misaligned buyers, this episode will help you recalibrate and start attracting clients who truly match your next level. Liked this episode? Make sure to subscribe to our podcast and leave a review with your takeaways, this helps us create the exact content you want!  KEY POINTS:  00:00 Welcome and Mission 00:52 The Fan Who Never Buys 03:07 The Ready Buyer You Miss 04:41 The Hidden Cost of Mismatch 07:05 Growth Collective Offer 08:48 Client Case Study Breakthrough 11:41 Identity Shift Not Tactics 12:17 Write From Highest Self 14:35 Readiness Check Prompt 15:57 Wealth Expansion Experience 17:57 Wrap Up and Next Steps QUOTABLES: “ There is a very specific kind of frustration that comes from being genuinely excellent at what you do and having revenue that does not reflect that.” - Julie Solomon “ Your content right now, it's probably doing one of two things. It's either being too educational, teaching, providing value, proving your expertise, or it's going to personal, relatable building connection, sharing your story. Both of those things serve an audience that needs to be warmed up, and neither of them speak directly to the woman who is already warm, who is already ready, who is looking for someone to step into the role of expert and just simply guide her.” - Julie Solomon RESOURCES: [JOIN THE WEALTH EXPANSION EXPERIENCE] This program helps you refine your voice, elevate your messaging, and express your ideas in a way that actually connects and converts. If you’re ready to stop overthinking your content and start showing up with clarity, confidence, and power—this is your next step. Learn more and get started now. [UNSCRIPTED: THE MASTERMIND] This 12-month, application-only mastermind is designed for high-caliber entrepreneurs ready to refine their positioning, amplify visibility, and scale strategically. If selected, you’ll receive 2 1:1 calls with me, monthly mastermind sessions, two retreats, and a guest feature on Woman of Influence. Apply now and, if it’s aligned, we will personally reach out with next steps.  💡The Growth Collective: Monthly Coaching With Me—for just $1 Your content deserves to convert, not just be seen. Inside The Growth Collective, you get: Monthly live coaching from me to sharpen your message and content strategy Access to my Content Catalyst custom-built AI tool that help you write content that actually sells. A behind-the-scenes look at how I create content that leads to real revenue And you can try it today—for just $1. [APPLY FOR THE REVENUE ACCELERATOR] Book a strategy call to explore whether The Revenue Accelerator is the right next step for your business and leadership. Apply and schedule your call today. [ORDER] my book or Audible, Get What You Want: How to Go From Unseen to Unstoppable so you can leverage the power of your own influence. Follow Julie on Instagram!

For established entrepreneurs, coaches, and creators, there often comes a point where the work you deliver has evolved beyond the story you tell about it. Woman of Influence exists for that precise, pivotal moment. Hosted by brand strategist and best-selling author Julie Solomon, this weekly podcast is a deep, practical resource for aligning your public message with the private mastery you've cultivated. The conversation here moves beyond basic marketing tactics into the core of strategic personal branding-how you communicate your value, scale your influence with integrity, and build a business that truly reflects your current expertise. Since 2017, Julie has guided listeners through these nuanced challenges across more than 500 episodes, drawing from her own experience and that of other successful leaders. Each episode of this podcast feels like a focused coaching session, whether Julie is unpacking a specific framework or interviewing a guest about their real-world journey. You'll hear candid discussions on navigating visibility, pricing with confidence, refining a compelling offer, and leading from a place of authentic authority. It’s for those who are ready to close the gap between being excellent at their craft and being known for it, making Woman of Influence a trusted tool for meaningful business growth.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

Woman of Influence
Podcast Episodes
Why I’m Rebranding After 7 Years—and What’s Next [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 21:06
This episode marks a huge milestone—the official rebrand of this show from The Influencer Podcast to Woman of Influence. After seven and a half years, thousands of conversations, and an evolution in both my work and myse…
Unspoken Burnout: Realigning Your Business with Who You Are Now [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 11:30
If your business feels heavy—even though everything “looks” successful—you’re not broken, you’re just out of sync with your own evolution. In this solo episode, I dive into what I call unspoken burnout—the quiet misalign…
The Three Buyer Identities That Can Make or Break Your Sales [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 26:24
In this solo episode, I’m bringing you behind the scenes for a private debrief of my live training, The Messaging Reset—because I know not everyone could join us live, and the energy was too good not to share! I walk you…
Decluttering, Alignment, and the Power of a Clear Message [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:57
In this episode, I sit down with my client and dear friend, Stacy Landholm, to talk about the powerful connection between decluttering your home and reclaiming peace in your life. Stacy shares how losing her mom sparked…
From Balance to Rhythms: How I Protect My Energy and Stay Aligned [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 24:27
I’m so excited to share this intimate Q&A episode with you! These are the kinds of questions I get asked most often inside my coaching containers, from close friends, and honestly—the ones I ask myself too. In this conve…
The Truth About Wealth-Building for Entrepreneurs [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 46:16
In this episode, I’m joined by Nate Coughran, founder of Cookie Finance, for a powerful conversation about money, entrepreneurship, and financial freedom. Nate shares how his own journey led him to create Cookie Finance,…
When You Raise Your Standards, Everything Changes [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 22:49
In this episode, I’m getting real about a truth that’s been rising to the surface for me as I step into my 41st year: your tolerance will always be met by the standard you set. Over the past year and a half, I’ve been ta…
Be Her Now: Leading from the Woman You’re Becoming [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 41:40
In this special Summer Series Flip episode, I’m so excited to share a conversation I had on the Brilliant Balance podcast with the amazing Cherylanne Skolnicki. We talk all about the journey of becoming—how I moved from…
How I Stopped Over-Delivering and Started Converting [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:21
In this special Summer Series Flip episode, I’m bringing you a powerful conversation from when I was a guest on Podcasting Made Simple with my friend Alex Sanfilippo. We dive into one of the biggest reasons content creat…
From Strategy to Stillness: How Clarity Finds You [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 16:54
In this solo episode, I’m diving into something deeply personal—the butterfly effect of becoming. I share three transformative moments from my life that weren’t defined by strategy or planning, but by resonance—those une…