391 Maureen Rafa: Advocate for Compassionate Care for Older Adults

391 Maureen Rafa: Advocate for Compassionate Care for Older Adults

Author: Gail Zelitzky and Catherine Marienau July 29, 2026 Duration: 29:01

Drawing on decades of experience in psychiatric mental health and a wide range of health care settings, Maureen Rafa now runs her own business as an elder care coordinator. She also actively volunteers to improve coordinated care, build livable communities, and promote thoughtful end-of-life planning. In this conversation, she challenges common misconception about aging—from the fear of dementia to the expectation of simply “dying in one’s sleep”—and urges older adults, especially women, to recognize and confront the “rampant ageism” embedded in our society. Maureen encourages women to become informed self-advocates and models that philosophy in her own life. At 72, she has downsized to an independent-living community, planned financially for future care, and remains intentional about avoiding isolation.

“Always keep your female friends.” - Maureen Rafa

Connect with Maureen

Email: maureenrafa10@gmail.com

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