The Two Words That Saved Mel Robbins

The Two Words That Saved Mel Robbins

Author: Pushkin Industries April 28, 2025 Duration: 36:51

If you've ever found yourself bending over backwards to meet other people’s expectations, or trying to control your loved ones’ emotions and behaviors, you are not alone. Bestselling author and podcast host Mel Robbins says the key is to stop micromanaging and start relaxing your grip. This conversation was an unexpected lesson in owning what’s yours and finding peace in ceding the rest.

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Life has a way of rewriting our scripts, often when we least expect it. A Slight Change of Plans, from Pushkin Industries, sits with that universal truth through conversations that feel both intimate and expansive. Hosted by cognitive scientist Dr. Maya Shankar, the podcast is shaped by her own pivotal shift-a violin career ended by injury, which led her to professionally examine how we process transformation. Each episode moves beyond theory, featuring deeply personal stories from a wide range of guests who share their own encounters with upheaval. What you’ll hear isn’t just about resilience, but the nuanced science and practical strategies that can help anyone navigate a redirected path. It’s this thoughtful blend of human experience and grounded research that earned the series Apple Podcasts’ Best Show of the Year. Listening feels like gaining a wiser friend, one who helps you reframe life’s unexpected turns not as disasters, but as complex chapters in a continuing story. The podcast ultimately explores how our identities adapt, how we find meaning, and how even the most disruptive changes can lead to growth we never planned for.
Author: Language: en-us Episodes: 100

A Slight Change of Plans
Podcast Episodes
How To Be A More Trustworthy Person [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 33:10
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BONUS: Make Your Inner Voice Work For You [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:41
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The Secret to a Good Conversation [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 36:43
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Breaking Free From Family Beliefs [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 32:01
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Duration: 36:30
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Duration: 40:23
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Rethinking Ambition [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:34
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The Story of a Smile [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 28:38
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Maya’s Slight Change of Plans, Revisited [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:24
A few years ago, Maya experienced a heartbreaking change in her personal life, while on her way to trying to become a mom. Two days after it happened, she felt the need to process it out loud, like so many of her guests…
A Rock Climber's Brush with Death [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:59
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