383: How does your inner critic impact your c*ck? (PART II) (ft. Dr. Luke Adler)

383: How does your inner critic impact your c*ck? (PART II) (ft. Dr. Luke Adler)

Author: Melanie Curtin October 17, 2025 Duration: 44:59

Overcoming erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, and other forms of sexual dysfunction in men is complex.

This is part II of a two-part series.

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Memorable quotes:

  • “It was an energy of oppression in my body.”
  • “Like many things in this field, men tend to not come forward around it."
  • “I developed a fear of having sex.”
  • “I had seen naturopaths, Western doctors, supplements, etc. and nothing helped.”
  • “The core of its energy is that it has no heart for me.”
  • “‘Be a good boy; we have to take care of mom.’”
  • “I would have paid $100,000 for that result.”
  • “It was a miracle in a lot of ways.”
  • “My tissues could finally receive the medicine.”

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Melanie Curtin hosts Dear Men: How to Rock Sex, Dating, and Relationships With Women, a space where curiosity meets practical change. This isn't about memorizing pick-up lines or playing games; it's built on the idea that genuine personal growth is the most attractive quality a man can develop. The conversations here move beyond surface-level tips to explore the deeper dynamics of connection, drawing from insights across health, culture, and psychology. You'll hear from women who offer a candid look into what fosters real attraction and lasting partnership, providing a valuable perspective often missing from mainstream advice. Each episode tackles the honest questions and challenges men face, whether navigating early dating, deepening intimacy, or building a resilient marriage. The focus is always on actionable understanding-how to listen, communicate, and show up in ways that are both authentic and effective. Tune in for a podcast that respects your intelligence and meets you where you are, offering a blend of straightforward talk and nuanced discussion that can reshape how you approach every aspect of your life with women. It's for any man ready to move past confusion and toward more meaningful, fulfilling connections.
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