Dr. M’s SPA Newsletter Volume 15 Issue 30 – Beyond Behaviors Part 2, Mona Delahooke, PhD

Dr. M’s SPA Newsletter Volume 15 Issue 30 – Beyond Behaviors Part 2, Mona Delahooke, PhD

Author: Dr. Chris Magryta, "Dr. M" December 26, 2025 Duration: 0:00
Review of Chapter 2 of Beyond Behaviors by Mona Delahooke, PhD  "Social behavior and the capacity to manage challenge are dependent on the neural regulation of physiological state." S. Porges  Top Down or Bottom Up? "Before We Respond to Behavior, We Need to Understand Its Origin." With a deceptively simple observation, Dr. Delahooke reshapes the entire field of behavioral intervention: children’s actions come from two very different places in the brain. Some behaviors are top-down, intentional, planned, thoughtful. But many, especially the ones adults find most perplexing, arise bottom-up from stress responses generated by the body’s autonomic nervous system. We often think of this state in terms of fight or flight, however, it is not that simplistic. It is truly any significant response to the outside environment that leads to a neuroceptive reaction that is not governed by the neocortex, top down. If we don’t distinguish the source, our interventions are guesswork at best and often counterproductive at worst. She illustrates this through a case, a child whose impulsive, disruptive behaviors were treated as failures of will or desire. School teachers and teams repeatedly urged him to “use his words,” as though language were a faucet he simply refused to turn on. What no one stopped to ask was the foundational question: Was his nervous system regulated enough to access language at all? Was he gated at the level of the amygdala blocking the ability to use his mind consciously and even have the opportunity to respond to a meaningful request? Is he capable of the ask, not in terms of willingness, but in terms of physiological access to the skill itself? ..... and more Enjoy, Dr. M

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Podcast Episodes
Dr. M’s SPA Newsletter Volume 16 Issue 24 – Story and Mom [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 12:14
The Story Your Brain Decides to Tell Two people walk into the same room. One has been told that she is there to make new friends. The other has been told that she is there to determine whether the people in the room can…
Dr. M’s SPA Newsletter Volume 16 Issue 23 – Back To School [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 6:43
Back To School Thoughts As summer winds down and the school year starts, our attention naturally turns to backpacks, school supplies, new clothes, sports schedules, and carpools. But getting ready for school is about muc…
Dr. M’s SPA Newsletter Volume 16 Issue 22 – Technology and Kids [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

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The Hardest Part of Medicine Isn't Making the Diagnosis Last week I wrote that one of the most healing words in the English language may be "no." I believed it when I wrote it. After today, I believe it even more. Today…
Dr. M’s SPA Newsletter Volume 16 Issue 21 – Saying No [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 11:09
The Healing Power of Saying No Why the path to health often begins with restraint! Every major faith tradition discovered something long before neuroscience or evolutionary biology could explain it. Growth often begins w…
Dr. M’s SPA Newsletter Volume 16 Issue 20 – Healthcare Policy [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 17:49
Failing Them Why Are We? We are failing our children, the next generation. I have been spending an inordinate amount of time studying cellular biology and mitochondrial function in order to understand worsening disease t…
Dr. M’s SPA Newsletter Volume 16 Issue 19 – Pain [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 11:53
Pain Do we listen to its signal? Pain: Your Body's Built-In Warning System Pain is one of the body's oldest and most important protective mechanisms. It isn't your enemy. It is a messenger. Imagine walking barefoot acros…