Tuning What Turns You On

Tuning What Turns You On

Author: Steven Mathis May 5, 2026 Duration: 17:36

Ep. #809 | Ask yourself: what turns you on?

Now ask: did you choose those things, or are they just there?

For most men, what turns them on feels fixed. Automatic. Just the way it is.

It's not.

What turns you on is one of the most powerful forces in your life. It shapes the depth of your relationship, the energy you send out into the world, and your power to create and manifest what you actually want. And it's far more programmable than you think.

In this episode, we get into the two mechanisms running underneath what turns you on, why most men are leaving this force on autopilot to their own detriment, and exactly how to start tuning it to your advantage.

If you've never considered that you can change what turns you on, press play.


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Steven Mathis hosts Holistic Alpha | Sacred Sexual Power, a space where conversations move beyond physical fitness to explore the deeper, often unspoken connections between vitality, purpose, and masculine energy. This isn't about quick fixes or superficial advice. Instead, each episode delves into how a man's sexual energy-when understood and integrated holistically-can become a foundational source of personal power, clarity, and genuine confidence in all areas of life. You'll hear candid discussions and practical insights that bridge ancient wisdom with modern living, focusing on sustainable practices for physical health, mental resilience, and emotional integrity. The aim is to provide a thoughtful resource for men seeking to cultivate a more authentic and elevated existence, where strength is measured not just in muscle, but in character and connection. Tune into this podcast for a nuanced journey that redefines what it means to be truly healthy and empowered.
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