#452 Elizabeth Davies - Training For Your Old Lady Body

#452 Elizabeth Davies - Training For Your Old Lady Body

Author: Andrew Coates March 17, 2026 Duration: 47:29

Elizabeth Davies is the author of Training For Your Old Lady Body and famous for the quote:


“Training for my summer body? Fuck no. I’m training for my old lady body. Dense bones, strong muscles, a healthy heart, good balance, functional independence.”


Elizabeth joins me to share her thoughts and experience about:


What is SkinnyTok and why it’s dangerous


The cycles of body image standards and why chasing them can create problems


Is Kim Kardashian a good role model for body image


Why building a bank of bone health early matters, and why chasing skinny at a young age compromises this


Her frustration with the marketing messaging about getting in shape for summer


Why she’s focused on taking care of her body for now and later


Where being focused on training for aesthetics can go wrong


“Why is there so much focus on helping women avoid looking old as we age and so little focus on helping us avoid feeling old”


And much more


IG: @thiswomanlifts


CHAPTERS


00:56 What Is Skinny Talk

02:27 Debulking And Gym Myths

05:11 Beauty Standards Shift

08:43 Why Skinny Talk Harms

10:50 Who Gets Triggered

12:49 Artifacts Of Diet Culture

15:40 Old Lady Body Quote

16:15 From Lawyer To Trainer

17:02 Summer Body Panic

19:55 Plagiarism And Sharing

23:19 Looking Good Vs Longevity

25:13 Confidence Through Care

25:47 Aesthetic Goals Debate

27:16 Realistic Expectations

29:03 Long Game Fitness

29:52 MacrosFirst Ad

30:56 Harmful Beauty Tactics

33:41 Training For Later Life

34:40 Cardio And Weights

36:53 Avoid Feeling Old

38:34 Aging Anxiety And Control

42:36 Botox Culture Critique

44:44 TrainHeroic Ad

46:04 Closing And Where To Follow


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Andrew Coates hosts Lift Free And Diet Hard, a conversation grounded in the belief that strength and wellness are built on more than just routines. This podcast moves beyond quick fixes to examine the principles and personal stories that shape a sustainable, intentional life. You’ll hear from a variety of inspiring guests who share not only their expertise but also the real-world challenges and triumphs they’ve faced. The discussions naturally weave together the science of fitness with the practicalities of daily choices, offering a nuanced look at what it means to truly care for your physical and mental health. Each episode is designed to provide actionable insights you can use to navigate your own path, fostering resilience and confidence whether you're in the gym or the kitchen. By focusing on informed decision-making over dogma, the Lift Free And Diet Hard podcast becomes a resource for anyone looking to cut through the noise of wellness culture. Andrew facilitates these explorations with a focus on empowerment, ensuring every conversation adds a layer of understanding to the complex journey of building a strong, healthy life.
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