Savoring Your Lovemaking

Savoring Your Lovemaking

Author: Bonny Burns, J Parker, and Chris Taylor April 9, 2026 Duration: 26:47

What does sex that isn't mostly about orgasm look like? What does it mean to really savor your lovemaking? Slide your chair up to our (bistro) table this week and let's discuss!

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From the Bible

For your Maker is your husband—
    the Lord Almighty is his name—
the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer;
    he is called the God of all the earth.
Isaiah 54:5

I will betroth you to me forever; I will betroth you in righteousness and justice, in love and compassion. Hosea 2:19

"For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh." This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. Ephesians 5:31–32

Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him. Psalm 127:3

The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly. John 10:10 (ESV)

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law. Galatians 5:22–23

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4–7 

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Marriage within the Christian faith encompasses the whole person-body, spirit, and mind. Sex Chat for Christian Wives exists in that sometimes tricky, always sacred intersection. Hosted by Bonny Burns, J Parker, and Chris Taylor, this is a conversation among friends who believe that sexual intimacy is a profound gift meant to be explored and enjoyed within a covenant marriage. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair to a candid kitchen-table talk, where laughter and grace are always welcome. You’ll hear them draw from scripture to frame a positive, theology-based view of sex, while also diving into remarkably practical advice for everyday married life. The discussions are grounded, addressing real questions and challenges with honesty and without shame. This podcast moves beyond vague principles to offer tangible tips and perspectives that can transform a couple's intimate connection. It’s a unique space where faith, health, and sexuality are woven together, affirming that spiritual and physical intimacy are beautifully and intentionally linked. Tune in for thoughtful, compassionate dialogue that empowers wives to embrace this dimension of their relationship with freedom and joy.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 100

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Podcast Episodes
What Does God Have to Do with Our Sex Life? [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 22:44
For many Christians, it can be difficult to think about God and sex at the same time. How present is God in our bedrooms? And how does knowing that He knows make us feel? We dive deep into what God has to do with our sex…
Pray About Your Sex Life (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:11
In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, Bonny Burns talks about praying for your sex life. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
Your Sexual Story, with Dr. Carol Tanksley [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 30:55
We welcome guest Dr. Carol Tanksley, who is an author, speaker, podcaster, licensed OB-Gyn, and a trained and ordained minister. She joins us to talk about how your sexual story shaped you and how to pursue sexual wholen…
Bad Messages About Sex (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:01
In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, J Parker talks about the bad messages we hear about sex.
Light Hearts & Lingerie [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 24:47
Many of us face obstacles to playfulness around sexuality and sexual experience. Today, we discuss ways to foster light hearts on a sometimes serious subject. Sponsor Thanks to MarriedDance, a Christian sex toy store tha…
Self Touch (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:02
This week's sex tip quickie comes from Julie Sibert of Intimacy in Marriage: self touch.
Addressing Sexual Pain [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 38:07
Did you know that 3 out of 4 women at some point experience pain during intercourse? Today, we're joined by Debby Wade, a licensed therapist and expert in the area of women's sexual pain. Sponsor Thanks to Share the Soap…
Euphemisms for Sex (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:12
J explains why it's a great idea to have a euphemism for sex.
Seasoned Wives' Wisdom for Young Wives [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 19:34
Earlier on in our podcast, we had an episode in which we gave advice to our newlywed selves. Today we want to revisit that topic a bit, but rather than talking to ourselves, we want to share the wisdom we've gained with…
Dealing with Your Gag Reflex (Quickie) [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 2:04
In this week's Sex Chat Quickie, Chris gives you four tips on dealing with a gag reflex during oral sex.