251. Why Teens Shut Down When Parents Try to Talk

251. Why Teens Shut Down When Parents Try to Talk

Author: Therese Connolly April 7, 2026 Duration: 10:56

Does your teenager shut down when you try to talk?

Many parents feel frustrated when conversations with teens turn into silence, eye rolls, or one-word answers.

But the reason teens shut down may not be what you think.

In this episode, parent coach and psychotherapist Tess Connolly explains the real reasons teen communication breaks down and what parents can do to rebuild connection.

You’ll learn how adolescent brain development affects communication and how parents can shift their approach to help teens feel safer opening up.

Inside this episode:

• Why teens shut down during conversations

• Common communication mistakes parents make

• How to create safer, more open conversations with teens

• Practical strategies that help teens talk again

Listen now and discover how to improve communication with your teenager.

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