288. What to Say When Your Teen Won’t Get Off Their Phone: 5 Scripts

288. What to Say When Your Teen Won’t Get Off Their Phone: 5 Scripts

Author: Therese Connolly August 13, 2026 Duration: 11:30

You have asked your teen to put down their phone three times. They have barely looked up, and “just one more minute” is quickly turning into another family argument.

What can you say without yelling, lecturing, or giving up on the boundary?

In this practical Quick Reset, Tess Connolly, LCSW, gives single parents five specific scripts to use when their tween or teen:

  • Ignores the first request to put the phone down
  • Repeatedly asks for “just one more minute”
  • Says everyone else’s parents allow more phone time
  • Gets angry and calls you controlling
  • Sneaks the phone back after bedtime

Tess also explains why shorter, calmer language works better than repeating, threatening, or trying to convince your teen that the boundary is fair.

You will learn how to acknowledge what your teen is feeling without removing the limit, offer appropriate choices without reopening the negotiation, and create consequences that are connected, specific, and time-limited.

Your teen does not have to like the boundary for the boundary to be appropriate. You can protect the relationship and hold the limit at the same time.

The relationship is the intervention—and calm, clear boundaries are part of that relationship.

Listen to Episode 287, Teen Screen Time Limits: How to Reset Phone Boundaries Without Constant Fights, for the larger framework behind today’s scripts.

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The Single Parenting Reset Show supports single moms, working moms, and all parents with practical parenting tips on screen time, emotional regulation, co-parenting, stress relief, setting boundaries, building trust, and raising confident tweens and teens, while tackling tech addiction, behavior problems, and parent burnout with conscious parenting strategies for stronger family connection.

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Navigating the tween and teen years alone comes with a unique set of daily tests, from managing defiance to negotiating screen time in a connected world. Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens is here for that journey. Hosted by Therese Connolly, a licensed clinical social worker and family coach, this podcast moves beyond theory to offer actionable steps you can use immediately. Therese draws on both professional expertise and a genuine understanding of the solo parent reality, where you’re the only one setting boundaries and mending fences. Conversations focus on turning behavioral challenges into opportunities for growth, finding realistic ways to pull kids from their devices, and fostering a home where communication actually works. You’ll hear strategies for building your own confidence as a parent while strengthening your family’s connections, all without the sugar-coating. This is a space for single moms and dads seeking real-life support, where every episode aims to provide a practical reset for the week ahead. Tune in for a blend of compassionate guidance and concrete tools designed specifically for the solo parent raising adolescents.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 50

Single Parenting Reset Show: For Solo Parents of Tweens and Teens — Manage Behavior Problems, Reduce Screen Time & Improve Communication
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