223. From Dreading to Doing: Overcoming Avoidant Tendencies at Work

223. From Dreading to Doing: Overcoming Avoidant Tendencies at Work

Author: Susan Callender March 20, 2025 Duration: 28:42

In episode #223, we look into the avoidant behaviors that hold socially reluctant professionals back from reaching their full potential.

What you'll learn:

  • Why "can't" thinking is actually a lie your brain tells you to avoid discomfort
  • The 10 most common social avoidance behaviors among professionals with social anxiety
  • A proven framework to transform your mindset from "I can't" to "I literally can"
  • Practical strategies to overcome resistance and build the discipline muscle
  • How to break the reward cycle that reinforces avoidant behavior

Key avoidance behaviors covered:

  • Declining speaking opportunities
  • Skipping networking events
  • Putting off client calls
  • Dreading spontaneous interactions
  • and more!

Discover how The School of Social Mastery can help you transform your relationship with social situations and become the confident professional you're meant to be.

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You know that moment in a room when a conversation turns tricky, or a crucial introduction feels awkward, and you wish you had the right words? That’s the space where Social Skills Mastery lives. Hosted by Susan Callender, a coach and corporate trainer who focuses on social confidence, this podcast digs into the practical mechanics of interpersonal dynamics for driven professionals. It’s not about vague theory; it’s a resource for anyone who needs to build genuine social capital and leverage polished people skills to create real opportunities. Each episode feels like a focused coaching session, breaking down exactly what to do and say in high-stakes or competitive environments-from navigating difficult negotiations to making a memorable impression at a networking event. Susan provides actionable strategies for maneuvering through these situations with grace, aiming to help you get it right the first time. Whether you're an entrepreneur, business owner, or a professional aiming to stand out, this podcast offers a steady stream of insights to transform how you connect, communicate, and lead. Tune in weekly for thoughtful guidance that turns social agility into a tangible career asset.
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