Most men would rather suffer in silence than admit they have a problem in the bedroom —Let’s change that. On this episode of Taboo To Truth, I sat down with Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent, to talk about one of the most common yet least discussed issues in men's sexual health: premature ejaculation.
We get into the real clinical definition of PE, why the "arousal gap" between men and women makes this a near-universal issue, and why anxiety — not selfishness — is usually driving the problem.
Jeff breaks down the physiological and psychological causes of PE, why shame keeps so many men from seeking help, and why over 4,000 doctors recommend Promescent's Delay Spray. We also cover how the product actually works, how to use it correctly, dosing and titration, safety data from 3 million bottles sold, and how it compares to Viagra.
Jeff gets personal too, sharing his own story of turning 69, how porn distorts expectations for young men, and the reality of the refractory period as we age. We close out talking about female pleasure, non-ejaculatory orgasms, and why using every tool available in the bedroom is nothing to be ashamed of. This is a candid, funny, and genuinely useful conversation for any man — or any partner of a man — who wants better sex and less anxiety about it.
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In This Episode:
00:00 — The Silent Struggle Millions of Men Face
00:33 — Podcast Intro & Meet Your Host
01:05 — Welcome Jeff Abraham, CEO of Promescent
02:10 — What Really Counts as Premature Ejaculation
04:15 — The Arousal Gap & Why Anxiety Kills Intimacy
06:45 — Physical vs. Psychological Causes of PE
09:00 — Breaking the Stigma Around Men's Sexual Health
11:00 — Kegels, Combo Therapy & Why Urologists Trust Promescent
14:00 — The Old (Bad) Solutions: SSRIs and Numbing Creams
16:30 — Treating PE Step by Step & Weaning Off
19:30 — How Jeff Discovered Promescent (Origin Story)
22:30 — The Eutectic Formula That Changes Everything
25:00 — How to Use the Delay Spray: Application & Timing
27:30 — Dosing, Titration & Finding Your Sweet Spot
29:30 — Is It Safe? 3 Million Bottles, Zero Red Flags
31:00 — Promescent vs. Viagra & Doctors' Favorite Combo
33:30 — Does Age or Ethnicity Affect PE Rates?
35:15 — The PE-ED Connection & the Fragile Male Ego
37:00 — Jeff's Personal Story: Aging, Porn & Regret
38:30 — Where to Find Promescent, Discount Code
To watch the video version of this episode, head over to YouTube!
About the Guest:
Jeff Abraham is the CEO of Promescent, a leading sexual wellness brand focused on making intimacy solutions more accessible and effective. After discovering a groundbreaking treatment for premature ejaculation developed by urologist Dr. Ronald Gilbert, Jeff invested in the product and became the majority owner, launching the company’s flagship Delay Spray.
Connect with Jeff Abraham:
Website: https://www.promescent.com
Instagram: https://www.facebook.com/Promescent/
Delay Spray: https://promescent.sjv.io/QY44bY
About the host:
Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.
This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.
Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:
Email: karen@taboototruth.com
Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast
Substack: https://karenbigman.substack.com
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