This week in The Labia Lounge I got to chat with Lil Desille from Neurokinnection all about AuDHD and relationships!
We’re diving deep into all the real, raw, and sometimes challenging and/or hilarious realities of navigating sex, dating, and relationships when you’re neurodivergent—or loving someone who is.
Lil shares her journey from late diagnosis (and all the euphoria AND grief that entailed), busts myths about rising neurodiversity rates, and sheds much-needed light on why so many folks born into female bodies get diagnosed later in life.
You’ll hear about masking, miscommunication, the magic of directness, why pockets (trust us, you’ll want these in your relationship toolkit) can save your ass at parties, and how to be kinder to yourself and your spicy-brained loved ones while navigating dating and relationships.
Plus, we tackle internalized ableism, shame, and why kink might just be a neurodivergent haven!
Whether you’re curious about autism & ADHD, somewhere in the diagnostic Venn diagram, or just want to deepen your understanding of neurodiverse relationships, this episode is packed with realness, education, and laughs.
Tune in for:
- Late-diagnosis life stories and identity integration
- Why more women and AFAB folks are discovering their neurospiciness
- Making sex and intimacy work for neurodivergent brains
- The gifts and challenges of authentic communication
- Practical tools for managing sensory overload, social batteries, and the “domestic load”
- The genius of ‘pockets’ for smooth relationship transitions
- How to support and celebrate neurodivergent partners (and yourself!)
Aaaaand you can expect all the usual antics and hilarious, vulnerable n' relatable personal stories and signature segments that you've come to know and love here in The Labia Lounge!
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Find and follow Lil's work here: www.neurokinnection.com.au
@neurokinnection (insta / TikTok)
www.nk-intimacy-alchemy.com.au
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