Are You Absorbing Other People’s Energy?

Are You Absorbing Other People’s Energy?

Author: Stop chasing. Start attracting. April 7, 2026 Duration: 13:15

Recently, I had a conversation with friends about thrifting. We were talking about buying used clothes and wondering a very specific question: do you take on the energy of the people who wore those items before you?

When I shared this online, the answers were completely split. Some people avoid thrift stores entirely to protect their peace. Others said they would happily wear clothes from a sister or a close friend, but maybe not a stranger.

As an intuitive healer, I work closely with energy every day. So, is it true that we might absorb the vibes of the previous owner?

Probably, yes. Here is why.

The Reality of Energetic Exchanges

Think about how you feel in different environments. When you walk into a spa with clean sheets, incense, and soft music, there is a specific, calming vibe. You feel at peace. Now contrast that with a loud rock concert. The energy is completely different, and you certainly would not go there to meditate.

We take on energy from the things, places, and people around us. Have you ever walked into a room and instantly felt good? Or maybe you have met someone who is constantly complaining, and you felt completely drained after talking to them?

The Glass of Water Analogy

If you are highly susceptible to taking on other people’s vibes, you might have a leak in your aura.

Imagine a clear glass of water. If you drop a tiny bit of black ink into it, the water might get a little muddy, but it will not turn completely dark. If your own energy is crystal clear, picking up a tiny bit of negativity will not impact you much.

However, if your glass is already muddy and you surround yourself with people who constantly add dark ink, you will feel the effects heavily. You will find it much easier to take on other people’s heavy emotions, whether that is stress, grief, or anxiety.

5 Ways to Protect and Cleanse Your Energy

If you often feel drained for no obvious reason, it is time to practice energetic hygiene. Here are five steps to keep your aura strong:

* Check your own energy: Are you radiating uplifting vibes, or are you unintentionally putting out negativity?

* Assess your environment: Pay attention to who you are hanging out with. If you are surrounded by heavy or toxic energy, you need to be extra cautious.

* Create a protective shield: Before stepping into a crowded or draining environment, visualize a bubble of light wrapping around your body three times. Say to yourself, “I am putting on this protective shield of love and light to keep out any energy that does not serve me.”

* Cleanse when you return: After giving a lot of yourself or returning from a heavy environment, cleanse your space. You can light sage, clear off a cluttered table, or simply wash your hands and face with the intention of washing away the day’s heaviness.

* Trust your intuition: This is the most important step. If your gut tells you not to borrow a certain item or hang out with a specific person, listen to it. Your inner wisdom will never guide you wrong.

We cannot avoid negative energy entirely; it is everywhere. But by raising our own vibration and taking steps to protect ourselves, we can stop feeling so drained and maintain our inner peace.

Ready to align your energy?

If you want to practice tuning into your intuition and keeping your vibration high, I would love for you to join me for a special gathering.

Join my free community Align Event!

* Date: April 16th

* Time: 7:00 PM

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Chitra Rochlani hosts The Warrior Mindset Podcast, a series built on the idea that profound shifts don't require hours of your time. Each episode is crafted to deliver a focused, actionable insight in under seven minutes, making it possible to integrate personal growth into the busiest of days. You'll hear conversations and reflections designed to cut through mental clutter, challenge the internal narratives that hold you back, and foster a stronger, more trusting connection with your own intuition. This approach blends practical self-improvement with deeper mental and emotional wellness, moving beyond theory into real-world application. The podcast draws from various facets of life, including fitness and mental discipline, to address the whole self. It’s for anyone feeling stuck in a pattern or seeking the clarity and confidence to step into a more authentic version of their life. By consistently exploring how to break free from limiting beliefs, the show serves as a regular touchpoint for empowerment. Tuning in offers a moment of pause and redirection, a short daily practice aimed at unlocking the potential that often gets buried by daily noise and old habits. The result is a cumulative journey toward inner peace and outward transformation, one compact episode at a time.
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