Losing All Discretion - TS17

Losing All Discretion - TS17

Author: Tori and Soul, Same-Sex Female Bisexual Couple in the Swinging Lifestyle September 15, 2019 Duration: 39:11

Your discovery of the lifestyle likely happened at the intersection of someone in the relationship being curious enough, and brave enough to bring up the topic of exploring sexuality in a new way. They now feel comfortable enough to share their desires. The tricky part is that as individuals, we will also have a list of desires that are as unique as we are. And, if the adage, "opposites attract", is true in your relationships, how easily does this further complicate things? You love your partner, so how do you navigate their interests when what they want may not be of interest to you? How do you support your partner with something that is on the top of their list when it isn't even on your list? In this episode Tori & Soul are having another CarTalk. This time it's about promiscuity and drinking and fantasies, and having your partner support it all. Here goes another emotional discussion, when one person is, clearly, more highly charged, and the other is more rational. We wanted to share this discussion so that others could hear a demonstration of how partners can support one another, in their lifestyle journey, as they open up and uncovering what truly pleases them. Listen and discover how to embrace the understanding that, "what one person does, really has nothing to do the the other person" - which is the opposite of what many people are taught to believe about relationships. Supporting your partner (while having established agreements about behaviours in place) is more likely to bring you closer to each other, rather than weakening your connection - the opposite to what people often fear.

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At the heart of Torrid Souls is a real, ongoing conversation between two people building a life together on their own terms. Hosts Tori and Soul are a married same-sex female bisexual couple, partners for over ten years who now navigate the complexities and joys of the swinging lifestyle not just as lovers, but as parents. This isn't a theoretical discussion; it's grounded in the daily reality of maintaining a passionate, committed relationship while exploring ethical non-monogamy. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair to their kitchen table, listening as they dissect the social adventures, the inevitable misunderstandings, and the profound connections that can form outside traditional boundaries. They talk about the intersection of sexuality and fitness, how personal health impacts relationships, and the cultural nuances of living authentically in a society that often expects a simpler story. The podcast resonates deeply with couples who are secure in their love but curious about how opening their relationship might actually strengthen their bond. Whether you're actively exploring alternative lifestyles or just seeking a more honest dialogue about long-term partnership, Tori and Soul offer a rare, unfiltered perspective. Their journey provides a specific, human lens on topics that are often shrouded in secrecy or sensationalism, making every conversation in this podcast both relatable and genuinely enlightening.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 33

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Multi-Orgasmic In A Mansion - TS22 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:36:57
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Duration: 1:10:53
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Lead Us To Temptation - TS20 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 59:40
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Thank U, Next - TS19 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:06:26
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Batman and Some Sexy Firsts at O Zone - TS18 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 47:41
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Bi Is The New Black - TS16 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:36:59
Here it is!... the everything you didn't know you wanted to know about being bisexual in the lifestyle. Find out what it's really like from the perspective of a bi guy, a bi gal and as a bi couple. Join us for our first-…
Vibes and Tribes - TS15 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:05:01
The skill of finding play partners, what do you look for? Is it physical attraction? Is it mental? Emotional? Do need to get to know others? Do you play and never repeat? Do you prefer established partners. In the lifest…
Cougars & Cubs: Sexually Confident Women Who F*** Younger Men - TS14 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 43:41
Some consider "cougar" a derogatory term. It's ageist. It's sexist and there's just something slightly tacky about it that many women don't want that label attached to them. Typically, a cougar is defined as an older wom…
What Happened at Desire & Live at VIN 2019 - TS13 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:07:45
Valentines In Niagara aka VIN, is the largest lifestyle event of it's kind in Canada. TABOTA Events has been offering this to couples for over 10 years. Hundreds of couples, all with the same mindset of wanting to explor…
The Down-Low on Valentines in Niagara - TS12 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 1:27:06
We're at it again. Yep. We're doin' it in the car, again ...and this one goes long and deep! Mmmm-hmmm. Hope you have the stamina to keep up with us til the very end 'cause in this episode we're telling you all about our…