Losing All Discretion - TS17

Losing All Discretion - TS17

Author: Tori and Soul, Same-Sex Female Bisexual Couple in the Swinging Lifestyle September 15, 2019 Duration: 39:11

Your discovery of the lifestyle likely happened at the intersection of someone in the relationship being curious enough, and brave enough to bring up the topic of exploring sexuality in a new way. They now feel comfortable enough to share their desires. The tricky part is that as individuals, we will also have a list of desires that are as unique as we are. And, if the adage, "opposites attract", is true in your relationships, how easily does this further complicate things? You love your partner, so how do you navigate their interests when what they want may not be of interest to you? How do you support your partner with something that is on the top of their list when it isn't even on your list? In this episode Tori & Soul are having another CarTalk. This time it's about promiscuity and drinking and fantasies, and having your partner support it all. Here goes another emotional discussion, when one person is, clearly, more highly charged, and the other is more rational. We wanted to share this discussion so that others could hear a demonstration of how partners can support one another, in their lifestyle journey, as they open up and uncovering what truly pleases them. Listen and discover how to embrace the understanding that, "what one person does, really has nothing to do the the other person" - which is the opposite of what many people are taught to believe about relationships. Supporting your partner (while having established agreements about behaviours in place) is more likely to bring you closer to each other, rather than weakening your connection - the opposite to what people often fear.

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At the heart of Torrid Souls is a real, ongoing conversation between two people building a life together on their own terms. Hosts Tori and Soul are a married same-sex female bisexual couple, partners for over ten years who now navigate the complexities and joys of the swinging lifestyle not just as lovers, but as parents. This isn't a theoretical discussion; it's grounded in the daily reality of maintaining a passionate, committed relationship while exploring ethical non-monogamy. Each episode feels like pulling up a chair to their kitchen table, listening as they dissect the social adventures, the inevitable misunderstandings, and the profound connections that can form outside traditional boundaries. They talk about the intersection of sexuality and fitness, how personal health impacts relationships, and the cultural nuances of living authentically in a society that often expects a simpler story. The podcast resonates deeply with couples who are secure in their love but curious about how opening their relationship might actually strengthen their bond. Whether you're actively exploring alternative lifestyles or just seeking a more honest dialogue about long-term partnership, Tori and Soul offer a rare, unfiltered perspective. Their journey provides a specific, human lens on topics that are often shrouded in secrecy or sensationalism, making every conversation in this podcast both relatable and genuinely enlightening.
Author: Language: English Episodes: 33

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OMG! We're Non-Monogamous Sluts! - TS1 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 34:51
After socializing for 2 weeks at the Desire and Temptation Resorts, Cancun, our voices are a wee bit raspy. In this episode we introduce you to our non-scripted CarClips. It's where some of our best in-the-moment epiphan…
The Who, How and Why of Torrid Souls - TS000 [not-audio_url] [/not-audio_url]

Duration: 13:03
In this introductory episode, we share who we are, and discuss how we navigate the lifestyle in a different yet similar way. Find out why we decided it was the right time to make Tori and Soul into a podcast. Discover yo…