The prostate, also called the male G-spot, is a walnut-sized gland most straight men never want to talk about, and this episode is exactly that conversation. I get into what it does, how it's tied to ejaculation, and why stimulating it can feel intensely pleasurable for some men, regardless of orientation.
You'll hear about the three prostate conditions every guy in midlife should know for his prostate health, BPH, prostatitis, and prostate cancer, the real evidence on prostate massage versus the wellness-industry hype, and how to explore it, through the perineum or internally, without ever needing to go through the anus if you don't want to. There's a study linking ejaculation frequency to prostate cancer risk, and the bigger point underneath it all: men's sexual health after 50 doesn't have to start and end with the penis.
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In This Episode:
0:00 – Why We're Talking About the Prostate
0:50 – Disclaimer
1:30 – What Exactly Is the Prostate?
2:35 – How the Prostate Participates in Ejaculation
3:15 – Why It's Called the Male G-Spot
4:10 – Why Prostate Stimulation Feels Good (No Orientation Attached)
5:15 – What Can Go Wrong: BPH (Enlarged Prostate)
6:35 – Prostatitis: Infection vs. Chronic Pelvic Pain
7:45 – Prostate Cancer & Why Screening Conversations Matter
8:20 – Does Prostate Massage Actually Help the Prostate?
9:35 – Do You Have to Go Through the Anus? (No — the Perineum)
10:35 – Hygiene, Prep & What to Expect
11:35 – Sponsor: FirmTech
12:05 – How to Massage the Prostate Internally, Step by Step
14:10 – Toys, Safety & What to Avoid
15:00 – When You Should NOT Do a Prostate Massage
15:35 – Ejaculation Frequency & Prostate Cancer Research
16:35 – Expanding Pleasure Beyond the Penis
17:35 – Talking to a Partner Who's Not Interested
18:15 – Final Thoughts
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Aneros Vibrating Prostate Massager - The Eupho Syn V is Aneros's vibrating update to its iconic slim, highly mobile prostate massager, offering 10 tuned vibration patterns across 4 speeds plus full functionality in unpowered mode for experienced hands-free play. This product has targeted stimulation and the same nimble profile that lets skilled users work it against the prostate for distinct sensations.
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About The Host:
Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Relationship Coach. She tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. On this show, we explore the intricacies of sex in midlife, offering insights and support for all those experiencing this transformative phase.
This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.
Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:
Email: karen@taboototruth.com
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