Ellen Raim: The Unwritten Rules for New Graduates at Work

Ellen Raim: The Unwritten Rules for New Graduates at Work

Author: Dr. Michael Ayalon July 6, 2026 Duration: 34:57

Ellen Raim is a former Chief Human Resources Officer at global companies, she sat in rooms where decisions about early-career talent get made. She knows what executives think reviewing performance. What makes someone "promotable" versus overlooked. The unwritten rules—because Ellen helped write them. As employment attorney with 10 years practice, Ellen understands workplace dynamics from compliance and risk perspective. More importantly, she knows how to help you navigate difficult situations without vulnerable position. As someone now spending years working exclusively with Gen Z professionals, she understands unique challenges Gen Z faces. This isn't your parents' workplace. Rules changed. Expectations are different. The path to success is less clear.

In episode 689 of the Fraternity Foodie Podcast, we find out what are the biggest mistakes recent graduates are making at work, why she decided to write the book called "Play the Game: Insider Strategies to Thrive in Your Early Career", what employers expect from new graduates that colleges often don't teach, what are the "unwritten rules" of the workplace, how students can articulate the value of their fraternity or sorority experience during job interviews, resume mistakes that immediately move candidates into the "no" pile, whether networking is still more important than applying online, what strengths this generation bring to the workplace that older generations often overlook, what workplace situations should young professionals take seriously and document, and what leadership traits consistently predict long-term success. Enjoy!


Hosted by Dr. Michael Ayalon, the Fraternity Foodie Podcast by Greek University moves beyond surface-level chatter to engage with the complex realities of campus Greek life. This isn't about social calendars or party themes; it's a dedicated space for necessary dialogue, pulling in leading voices and practitioners who work directly within the fraternity and sorority community. Each episode tackles a specific, often challenging, aspect of the student experience, from foundational safety issues like hazing and sexual assault prevention to the nuanced pressures surrounding substance use, mental wellness, and recruitment. The conversations are built on a practical educational framework, aiming to translate expert insight and frontline experience into actionable understanding for listeners. By focusing on these critical topics, the podcast seeks to contribute to stronger, healthier, and more accountable campus cultures. Tune in for thoughtful, solution-oriented discussions that address the questions at the heart of modern fraternity and sorority life.
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